Claims that a few "super hot men" are hogging all the women

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Yes I'm sure you would bravely walk into a group of black men by yourself...stop kidding yourself
https://www.huffpost.com/entry/a-white- ... ae050dc793

I’m older than all of you! And yes, I might be wary of walking into a group of men by myself, black, white, brown - whatever - even at my age. But I have done it. It depends upon the circumstances, for example alone at night, rather than the people’s colour. Matter of fact I would be wary about walking alone into a group of women by myself at times!

Yes I'm sure you would bravely walk into a group of black men by yourself...stop kidding yourself
https://www.huffpost.com/entry/a-white- ... ae050dc793

Not in this century - good looking black men (in the West) are actually seen as very desirable/sought after and are often fetishised in a similar fashion to Asian women.

Like with anything, men need to be educated about the dangers of pornography and, if banning it is infeasible, legislators need to consider regulating it (as heavily as they can). The UK is in the process of introducing effective pornography "licenses" which must be purchased physically in stores, which would be required to access pornographic websites. This is an excellent first step.

I understand why and how women are losing interest in men. Frankly, if I were a heterosexual woman today, I'd very quickly lose interest in men upon coming of age. As a heterosexual man, I've lost interest in women for similar reasons (I believe both masculinity and femininity have declined catastrophically in this part of the world).

At any rate, I don't think porn is the sole cause of men's ineffectuality and emasculation, but an effect of an underlying cause, which is the cult of self-indulgence and abnegation of responsibility that has emerged since the 60s. They've bought into the pernicious lie that they can enjoy an unlimited amount of pleasure without paying for it and shirk their responsibilities (usually handing them on to the government or their parents (more often parent singular, given the absence of dads, itself a cause of this problem)) and don't know what they've done wrong when women scorn these sorts of attitudes, given that they've unwisely trusted those peddling the above lie.

I don't think the only manifestation of this problem of male ineffectuality is porn, however. To name a few, I'd also list things like rampant drug addiction; the desire to retreat into a fantasy world, usually consisting of video games; the tendency towards gross perversions such as sadomasochism; poor educational performance; juvenile delinquency; sentimentalism; inarticulacy; the cult of mindless thrills in things like the biker culture and films like "Jackass"; the inability to take themselves seriously; slovenly dress; poor hygiene; the eschewal of responsibility; the deferment of marriage and parenthood.

I don't want to be unfair on men though; I reiterate that both sexes have declined in a way that may well ultimately threaten the viability of western civilisation itself, so low is it on social capital.

I know it will be controversial, but I've concluded that it's only through a return to traditional, nominally Christian values that there is any hope for the next generation, or even mine.

Like with anything, men need to be educated about the dangers of pornography and, if banning it is infeasible, legislators need to consider regulating it (as heavily as they can). The UK is in the process of introducing effective pornography "licenses" which must be purchased physically in stores, which would be required to access pornographic websites. This is an excellent first step.

I understand why and how women are losing interest in men. Frankly, if I were a heterosexual woman today, I'd very quickly lose interest in men upon coming of age. As a heterosexual man, I've lost interest in women for similar reasons (I believe both masculinity and femininity have declined catastrophically in this part of the world).

At any rate, I don't think porn is the sole cause of men's ineffectuality and emasculation, but an effect of an underlying cause, which is the cult of self-indulgence and abnegation of responsibility that has emerged since the 60s. They've bought into the pernicious lie that they can enjoy an unlimited amount of pleasure without paying for it and shirk their responsibilities (usually handing them on to the government or their parents (more often parent singular, given the absence of dads, itself a cause of this problem)) and don't know what they've done wrong when women scorn these sorts of attitudes, given that they've unwisely trusted those peddling the above lie.

I don't think the only manifestation of this problem of male ineffectuality is porn, however. To name a few, I'd also list things like rampant drug addiction; the desire to retreat into a fantasy world, usually consisting of video games; the tendency towards gross perversions such as sadomasochism; poor educational performance; juvenile delinquency; sentimentalism; inarticulacy; the cult of mindless thrills in things like the biker culture and films like "Jackass"; the inability to take themselves seriously; slovenly dress; poor hygiene; the eschewal of responsibility; the deferment of marriage and parenthood.

I don't want to be unfair on men though; I reiterate that both sexes have declined in a way that may well ultimately threaten the viability of western civilisation itself, so low is it on social capital.

I know it will be controversial, but I've concluded that it's only through a return to traditional, nominally Christian values that there is any hope for the next generation, or even mine.

This is getting to be an old thread, but I feel the urge to suggest that this phenomenon, although probably real, mostly affects people seeking casual sex via apps like Tinder. Because even today, I suspect there are far more men actively seeking casual hook-ups than there are women seeking the same thing, plus the fact that these women are likely aware that they can expect to be having sex with somebody who has had a substantial number of other recent sex partners (a deal breaker for many women) and don't care. Although not a woman myself, I think I am should feel safe in saying that such women represent a minority.

. Prejudice against black men is strongly associated with irrational fear.

It gets even worse that we aren't allowed to talk about it anymore because society decided to frame any criticism men have as the opposite gender as hating the opposite gender.

Hell on earth. Will things ever go back someday?

I think this forum is a safe space to talk as long as you are respectful

It isn't if the argument you make is always framed as just sexist or misogynistic no matter what.