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Kitty4670
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22 Jun 2019, 8:27 pm

If you are having alot of problems, would you guys still date online or offline?



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22 Jun 2019, 8:29 pm

I think offline is better, but it depends, really. It would be good if there was someone you could meet through friends and family or at church.



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22 Jun 2019, 8:35 pm

Twilightprincess wrote:
I think offline is better, but it depends, really. It would be good if there was someone you could meet through friends and family or at church.


You didn’t understand it, I said if you having problems, would you still date?



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22 Jun 2019, 8:37 pm

I guess it would depend on the type of problems I was having and how much I wanted to date.

People can have lots of different problems and still find someone but it can be challenging depending on how severe the problems are.



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23 Jun 2019, 2:45 am

Some problems could affect the relationship in some ways. For example, if you feel like there’s no reason anyone could love you, it might be hard to believe it when someone does.

If there are things about yourself that you want to work on, you could work on those while looking for someone. You could still find someone before improving your problems, but waiting until you think you’re ready might make things easier.


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23 Jun 2019, 10:08 am

I've always had lots of problems & I've had 3 relationships. I find my problems are easier to deal with & work on within a romantic realtionship. I sorta looked for & sought out women who also had problems because they are more relatable & I believe we could both work on things together by supporting each other. I would die single if I was going to avoid having romantic relationships till I didn't have problems. Some of my problems are things I can not solve unless I can travel a thousand years in the future or if I ran into a genie in a lamp or something.


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23 Jun 2019, 10:21 am

I think everyone has problems somewhere in their lives... Take someone who is a millionare. Everything seems rosey... But underneath they may have plenty of worries and concerns!

I would love to be able to switch a switch and all your struggles will be solved. But don't worry. If you find the right man for you, he will love you very much despite any issues you may have.


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23 Jun 2019, 5:47 pm

I do want to talk to a guy, I had a broken ankle when I was talking to guy. I thought my ankle was going healed & I was going walk again, but something went wrong, my ankle got healed, but my bones didn’t healed right, the doctor said I may need surgery, something wrong with my left lower leg, I think when I was walking mostly on that leg, I damaged my leg that why I wanted another x-ray. I had a doctor appointment, but cancel it, I wasn’t feeling well. I’m still having problems from my surgery last year. I want to go out, to go to my bank, I’m having feet problems too, top of my feet, the bones feel like it’s breaking, but it not. I’m having less energy to get dress & go out.



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23 Jun 2019, 5:53 pm

Aww. It doesn't mean you can't date a nice gentleman. It just means he needs to come to you. :)


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