Marknis wrote:
AquaineBay wrote:
For the guys that say why girls date criminals or "bad boys" have you ever considered that maybe those women(or women in general for that matter) might find it insulting that you would call the people they choose as their boyfriends "bad" or "criminals"?
I’ve known women who called their boyfriends “bad boys” and boasted about them being more fun than “nice guys”. If they have no problem using it, why is it such a horrible thing if I use it?
Because a girlfriend calling their boyfriend a "bad boy" has a different connotation than some random guy calling them a "bad boy".
Many times when a girlfriend calls a guy a "bad boy" they don't mean they are abusive or criminals or what not, they usually are referring to him being confident, taking charge in life, and not afraid to take risks. Sort of like Michael Jackson song: "Bad". When people sing that song about themselves they are referring to their self-confidence and talent.
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