I Missed The Flirt. Oops!

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Today was another moment when my Mum said something like "Didn't you notice that lady flirting with you? She couldn't have said anything else to make it more obvious!" Was one of those moments!

My sister says thwt sometimes it I suspect it’s just her trying to make me feel good and lady didn’t lift with me.

It could be that ladies have different minds to men.
I asked my Mum how she knew. She said "It's obvious!"

My father said the exact same thing to me once and he is about as oblivious at it gets. I also had a ex tell me the waitress was hitting on me when any sane person could tell she was, you know being a friendly waitress so keep that in mind.

As I have mentioned before, I had a young female coworker (both early 20s) literally throw herself at me and when I didn't say anything she sheepishly said something about practicing her dance moves. I had another invite me to a hotel room and I declined because I was too dumb to realize women don't invite you to private spaces to talk! I had a third one in my %%#@ parent's house and didn't make a move. It's nothing short of a miracle I am married now.

You sound so much like me. A certain older train conductor told me that a "Hot bird" on a certain train fancies me. I could not pace who it was. Then one day when I was walking down the train selling and checking tickets, a beautiful blond haired young lady said she didn't have a ticket. I asked "Where are you going?" She said out loud "ANYWHERE! TAKE ME ANYWHERE!" I was puzzled.. The train only went as far as a place called Coryton!
I said "I need to know where you are going to sell you a ticket". She told me ans I sold her a ticket and moved on.
For months I was puzzled who it was on the train who fancied me. I didn't realize it was her! I just thought she was having some sort of "Odd" moment. HAHA!
It is only looking back that I can see these things.

I don’t have any such lookin back moments, women have never flirted with me.

Aww. Actually, you may find that you had many and you so didn't notice them that you were not even puzzled what te ladies were doing?

Best not to flirt in the #metoo era, unless you are poor, then you are safe.

What's a "Metoo" era?

trust me my celtic brother, if you are not aware then you don't want to know.

Nope. Women just tell me I’m unattractive and or not a real man.

#metoo is women coming out causing men of rape. Whole started good is now jsut women accusing any men to smear them or get money.

Classic boy who cries wolf.
It’s ruined innocent men just as much as guilty men.

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Sly has just told me.

So it is women who accuse men of rape?

No.

It's a certain type of woman in holywood that is crazy and BPD, who accuses people of things.

But only now, 30 years later.

Well.... There are many clear cut cases of real harassment, stalking, sexual assault, and rape. Bill Cosby and Jeff Epstein had many, many victims who didn't gain anything of value by coming forward. Trump admits, brags about sexual assault, he's clearly guilty as well.

However... One of the two women who started the 'MeToo' movement tried to force herself on a seventeen year old boy years ago, and he was troubled emotionally by it for years. Actor Brendan Fraiser was groped and propisitioned by a big film producer years ago and blames the lapse in his career on turning him down. Many feminists often claim that it is not possible for a man to be sexually assaulted because we like it, we invite it, or that it simply isn't as important of an issue unless the victim is female. Hmmm, sounds familiar to what they say about all men, as we are apparently all collectively guilty of the crimes of some real creeps.

For the record, I was sexually assaulted by an older female cousin when I was nine years old. For years, I blocked out the incident and was encouraged by our grandmother, when it happened, to never speak of it again. The incident was never reported, and I have never enjoyed sexual intimacy, probably as a direct result (as therapy suggests). When I discussed it finally with my last girlfriend (one of only four times I've ever shared the whole memory with anyone) she laughed about it, and we split immediately. Women have always seemed to disrespect me, use me or try to use me, and dismiss my personal hobbies, interests, and feelings as inferior and unimportant to their own. I had dated a few women before the last one, but the ones I've known, even casually (platonically), seem to have no respect for men anymore. I finally just gave up on them, lol. More time and money for my own interests, my respectful friends who 'get' me, and hobbies and activities that I really enjoy.

To sum it all up: #MenToo

Is a bit like the times when men are assaulted by their wives in a non sexual level because when such crimes were reported, rarely were they ever followed up or taken seriously. Sometimes rhey were, but often they would be laughed at.
I never forget a certain lady I was in school with. She was not to be messed about with. Then I worked with her. She was actually quite a nice character.She started dating this guy. Things seemed ok. Then one day she came into work with a black eye. We were very concerned.
"Who did it?" I asked.
"My boyfriend" she replied.
Then she explaied "I hit him so he hit me back. Then I hit him again".
Now she had quite a black eye. At the end of the day her boyfriend came in the car to pick her up. I never forget it! He had two black eyes. Both eyes! Poor guy. I can't blame him now for punching her back!
Sadly they eventually split as even though both parties loves each other, they both valued their eyes!