Do you think it's wrong to like a younger guy

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22 Oct 2019, 5:11 pm

As far as your family and friends go this is one of those situations in which it is better to ask for forgiveness (not that you'd actually be doing anything you'd need to be forgiven for) rather than permission

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22 Oct 2019, 5:13 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:

I've actually always liked older women.....ever since I was a young kid.

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22 Oct 2019, 6:52 pm

It is never inappropriate at all. As many have said so far, you can think for yourself and make your own decisions!

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22 Oct 2019, 7:27 pm

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I totally copied some of your posts because they make me happy and I want to read them again later

I'm also quoting you in this forum post

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I'm not even sure if i like him romantically i just enjoy the fact that someone likes me and understands my character even a little. It's so hard for me to make a connection to someone and when i do that person becomes so precious to me. I wish whatever happens, we continue to have a good relationship whether as friends or lovers.

This ^^^^^^^ x9,000

Enjoy the connections you form, regardless of what comes or doesn't. These connections are so rare and wonderful

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22 Oct 2019, 7:42 pm

I have a fangirl.

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22 Oct 2019, 8:35 pm

magz wrote:

sly279 wrote:

AprilR wrote:

^We actually hung out a couple of times and ended up talking for two hours. I'm also stressing about this, what if it's inappropriate?
But what i meant to ask was why is it okay when the man is older but not okay when the woman is?

It’s not seen as ok for either to be older. But if you like each other just go for it. Happiness is rare for us.

Even by 5 years? They're in the same cohort!

2 years difference seems to me the most. I see a lot of women who refuse to date a guy two years older or younger.

It’s bad for me to want to date 18-25 year olds. Though they’d be the ones most likely to look past my issues, but again most wont date over 2 years difference.

I’m 31, most 28 year olds won’t consider me.

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22 Oct 2019, 8:44 pm

I'm 44 and engaged to a 25 year old.

Don't lose hope.

We autties find our fellow autties in time.

Report this if you want.

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22 Oct 2019, 8:49 pm

BDavro wrote:

I'm 44 and engaged to a 25 year old.

Don't lose hope.

We autties find our fellow autties in time.

Report this if you want.

What’s your job, car and home status?

Why’d I report it? Didn’t say I care if people date young or older. I’d prefer to date a 18-25 year old. Makes me a horrible monster.

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22 Oct 2019, 8:50 pm

I'm on your side here.

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22 Oct 2019, 8:53 pm

BDavro wrote:

I'm 44 and engaged to a 25 year old.

Don't lose hope.

We autties find our fellow autties in time.

Report this if you want.

Are you engaged then to your sweetie pie?! That’s wonderful!

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22 Oct 2019, 8:55 pm

The racheypiles69.

She even wears my ring,

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22 Oct 2019, 9:54 pm

BDavro wrote:

I understand man, men age like wine

I'm on your side here.

O.o

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22 Oct 2019, 10:11 pm

I knew a guy that was married to a woman 10 years older than him. So a five year difference? Pssh, that's nothing. If you connect and are interested don't let this stop you.

Women statistically tend to live longer than men, so you might as well go for the younger guy Lol

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23 Oct 2019, 6:22 am

Both my wife and my sister-in-law are married to men that are about 6 1/2 years younger. Previously I was in a relationship with someone who was 7 years younger. Not once did anybody, anywhere suggest that there was anything abnormal, weird or otherwise unusual about it. What's interesting is that of the 30 or so women I dated these 2 were by far the youngest and oldest I dated.

Somewhat OT, but I once saw ex and wife standing next to each other and even with the 14 year age difference they literally look the exact same age.

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23 Oct 2019, 6:41 am

My wife is 12 years older than me.

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24 Oct 2019, 8:15 pm

Age is a number.

I've dated women who were 10-15 years older and my ex is 22 years younger.

If you understand each other and form a deep connection, you should laugh at the age difference and at anyone who brings it up.

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