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So I changed my job and income and over night I’m getting matches like crazy.

So it never had anything to do with my personality. Just that I was min wage.

Very few 18-year-olds.....especially Americans.....have been to "10 countries."

It's much easier for a European person to visit 10 countries----because there are 10 countries within a smaller area than the entire United States. They don't have to fly 3,000 miles; all they have to do is take the train. A UK person can visit four countries within a few hours on the train: France, Belgium, Luxenbourg, and the Netherlands.

To me that sounds like a good news. If its personality then I can't put my finger on anything, but now I can.

But lets be careful here: are you talking about the matches or are you talking about people actually writing you? Did they start writing you once you changed this?

Most women won’t message. They like and match you and wait for you to message them.
Most even say they won’t message first in their profiles.

Sorry you're having no success with suitable women, Sly. You need someone with the personality and outlook of SharonB - someone really caring who has er priorities right - but such women are unfortunately few and far between and she's already taken! Ideally you need someone who's on the spectrum as they are more interested in their special interests than how much they, or a potential partner, have in the bank.

Perhaps your search will be rewarded when you're least expecting it.

I think what Sly is observing is that he wants to be loved simply for being, which as human beings, that should be the law of the land, but it's not.

Humans are animals, that's all that we are. Nobody dates anyone out of charity, men want sexy beautiful women, women want fit rich guys, these things are nothing new, but it does put a light on something terrible

Why are humans like this? We're just animals, We can build the most magnificent sky scrapers and mechanical engines, but at the end of the day, we're just animals, and we can't love out of charity, we love out of vanity, but that's not love. It's what the animals do, it doesn't mean anything.

I would suggest Sly, that you get into Christianity. If you're not a Christian already. A long time ago, I came to these conclusions, I don't want to be loved for money so I can't pursue money, so to this day, I work on my art every day and i work out everyday to enhance my focus and health for the sake of my art.

You are a disposable male by the lens of this world, so you have to look beyond this world to find your home. You don't belong here, but that's normal. You have a minimum wage job because you don't have money in your heart. To this world you might seem 'odd', but you're actually the normal one -- you don't have money in your heart, so you don't accumulate it, thus the world hates you for it.

18 If the world hates you, understand that it hated Me first. 19If you were of the world, it would love you as its own. Instead, the world hates you, because you are not of the world, but I have chosen you out of the world. John 15:18-19

24 No one can serve two masters: Either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve both God and money. Matthew 6:24

Then Jesus said to His disciples, “Truly I tell you, it is hard for a rich man to enter the kingdom of heaven. 24Again I tell you, it is easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God.” Matthew 19:24

This world failed you, sly, time to aim for the next one. This one is no good, let go of it, you don't belong here. Start reading the bible and live to serve God. I myself came to the conclusion that God gave me aspergers to keep me low-statured and away from the nature of this world, I have no choice but to turn my eyes to him because he chose me, and it might be the same for you.

And how would you know that?
My area isn’t known for factory jobs.

You can probably get to Russia in only a couple of days.

No, Russia is tricky to get to by train for 2 reasons:
1. You need to change trains, because Russia and other former Soviet Union countries still use mostly their own track gauge standard.
2. You cannot cross Russia-Belarus border unless you are a citizen of either of these countries. Their version of Schengen is very poorly implemented.

Financial success, just like financial disaster can sometimes hit "unexpectedly" - if you're already married, they will both be some of the most solid tests on how well you chose your partner.

It's likely they're lying.

2. Crossing Russia-Belarus border wasn't a problem, just passport check and visa stamp, all without leaving the train.

3. Obtaining Russian visa is cumbersome;

4. Trains in Russia are slooooow (but reliable, unlike planes in Russia).

Bald and Bankrupt, a UK blogger, got around Belarus just fine. He benefited from knowing Russian well, though.

Excuse me, but don't Christians also widely believe Jesus talking about no marriage in Heaven (Matthew 22) to mean "no sex/intimacy" for you or when one goes to Heaven they lose all their sexual desires? I thought God supposedly created these as intended "good" too so it's not fair that's the one thing in the next life that God can't restore.

It adds more insult to injury for the lonely people who didn't get that what they desired in this life.

It's likely they're lying.