Is this the most soul crushing thing someone can say too you

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30 Oct 2019, 1:38 pm

If someone says “I used too really fancy you”..........is that one of the most soul crushing things someone can say too you in your opinion?

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30 Oct 2019, 1:58 pm

You would be kicking yourself if you still fancied them.

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30 Oct 2019, 2:00 pm

domineekee wrote:

You would be kicking yourself if you still fancied them.

Yeah true

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30 Oct 2019, 2:06 pm

Trains leave fast on the underground, here's one of mine.

- You know, the more more I think about it, the more I think we should have something together.

-Hmm, sorry?

- Oh, err, nothing.

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30 Oct 2019, 2:09 pm

domineekee wrote:

Trains leave fast on the underground, here's one of mine.

- You know, the more more I think about it, the more I think we should have something together.

-Hmm, sorry?

- Oh, err, nothing.

No gurantee someone will fancy you again either

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30 Oct 2019, 2:15 pm

I guess at some point they probably make a hint that we don't pick up on.

Good luck working it all out, I never did but I'm not really cut out for it.

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30 Oct 2019, 3:11 pm

Jamesy wrote:

If someone says “I used too really fancy you”..........is that one of the most soul crushing things someone can say too you in your opinion?

It ranks alongside "I never did really love you".

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31 Oct 2019, 6:30 pm

I think that's better than "I never would have even considered you in that way".

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31 Oct 2019, 6:32 pm

I used to get these sorts of phrases said to me all the time.....

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31 Oct 2019, 6:48 pm

I said a terrible thing once which I never ever intended it in the way it was taken, as when I wrote it it meant something entirely different to how most people would read it and the way they read it... It was the complete opposite to what I intended the message to say. And when I sent it there was nothing I could do.

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31 Oct 2019, 7:10 pm

Fnord wrote:

It ranks alongside "I never did really love you".

I think that's usually said out of spite and (usually) isn't true.

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02 Dec 2019, 11:11 am

Jamesy wrote:

If someone says “I used too really fancy you”..........is that one of the most soul crushing things someone can say too you in your opinion?

I've heard that phrase said a bit in TV shows when girls meet up with guys they knew when they were in skewl & they had both moved on with their lives since then. I've also heard girls say it when they meet up with teachers or professors they had when they were in skewl. I think that phrase is meant as a compliment in those situations.

I think the worst thing I heard was something like "We're breaking up". Another really bad one is when I make a move on a girl & I hear "Your asking me out? I thought you were gay" & then things are very awkward & she's not interested in me.

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