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The_Face_of_Boo
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kraftiekortie wrote:
Date again when you feel like dating again.
There is no time period.
I know of people whose spouse died, and who loved that spouse, yet started seeking another person right away.
I don’t think my stepmother will seek another man after my father died, though. They were married 31 years.
You weren’t married to the guy. You didn’t even know him in person. So the “time period” is, on average, much less.
Do what you feel like doing.
There is no time period.
I know of people whose spouse died, and who loved that spouse, yet started seeking another person right away.
I don’t think my stepmother will seek another man after my father died, though. They were married 31 years.
You weren’t married to the guy. You didn’t even know him in person. So the “time period” is, on average, much less.
Do what you feel like doing.
You were right, I never met him in person. My ex-boyfriend was a little right, breaking up was for the best, sometimes I cannot handle his attitude, he sounded like my sister
I want to talk to men, but they always rushing things.
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28 Dec 2019, 11:52 pm
Kitty4670 wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
Date again when you feel like dating again.
There is no time period.
I know of people whose spouse died, and who loved that spouse, yet started seeking another person right away.
I don’t think my stepmother will seek another man after my father died, though. They were married 31 years.
You weren’t married to the guy. You didn’t even know him in person. So the “time period” is, on average, much less.
Do what you feel like doing.
There is no time period.
I know of people whose spouse died, and who loved that spouse, yet started seeking another person right away.
I don’t think my stepmother will seek another man after my father died, though. They were married 31 years.
You weren’t married to the guy. You didn’t even know him in person. So the “time period” is, on average, much less.
Do what you feel like doing.
You were right, I never met him in person. My ex-boyfriend was a little right, breaking up was for the best, sometimes I cannot handle his attitude, he sounded like my sister
I want to talk to men, but they always rushing things.
Well in my perspective I don't really see it as a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship if there has been no meeting in person. I mean I understand the 'break-up' may have been difficult...but I wouldn't go so far as saying that guy was your boyfriend, it was someone you were chatting with. But that is just how I see it, like I'd never have considered someone my boyfriend if we hadn't met in person. Sorry if that is offensive, but is my perspective.
31 Dec 2019, 6:00 pm
Teach51 wrote:
It really is a matter of fate. It took me 2 years between my last and present relationship. Nothing seemed to feel right. Which doesn't say much because I never choose a partner that would be a conventional life companion, I don't trust men as partners, only as friends. It's odd but that's me.
Kitty I think you are absolutely right to not meet men straight away. I have a feeling that like me, you don't read them efficiently and may be duped. Be very cautious love.
Kitty I think you are absolutely right to not meet men straight away. I have a feeling that like me, you don't read them efficiently and may be duped. Be very cautious love.
I met a man before from online dating, I met him out of boredom, it was sooo awkward, alot of silent, it wasn’t very good, we never saw each other again, we stopped talking online too, I learned a lesson
Not to rush things. It’s better to be friends first, get to know each other so things won’t be sooo awkward when you do meet .
