Well, to be honest, I havent dealt with a girlfriend for a long time now. I would say atleast a year, or more.
I'm doing okay alone, but I cant safely say I'm not sad or frustrated about it. I just havent focused my attention on girls, and when I did, I was mostly a failure most of the time.
I'm shamed about it, but at the same time, I realize life can continue without relationships. The question is, how healthy is it and how can someone live a life like that for a long time?
There is also a fear of being rejected / losing someone. If I start a relationship, and it ends a week or two later, I would return to being alone again and at that point, it would hurt more because of the brief relationship that ended too quickly.
And what makes me angry a lot more, is some women reject you for very ridiculous and unfair reasons. Without even, giving you a chance to explain things or prove yourself.
So the question I have is, what's the best way to proceed in such situation. And is staying alone, atleast for now, the best idea? Or the better idea would be to continue searching, hoping things would be okay and relationship would last long enough this time? If thats even going to happen, of course.
Thank you
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19 Feb 2020, 9:59 pm
