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Kitty4670
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20 Feb 2020, 7:58 pm

I met a man on OkCupid, we knew each other for 3 days, we continue talking on OkCupid, other men wanted to go on WhatsApp or Hangout, not him. I told him about my Cerebral Pasly, Aspergers & Psoriasis, he couldn’t handle it, he unmatch me. I really liked him. 8O :roll: :cry: :cry:



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21 Feb 2020, 6:29 am

I am sorry it didn't work out
You seem like a sweet lady from what I can tell from your posts I really hope you find the right person and I admire your determination to not give up.


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21 Feb 2020, 6:38 am

That’s very sad :(

Hope he had the decency to apologise for getting your hopes up before cutting them off.

Probably the best for you long term to not get with a guy who can’t cope with you though.



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21 Feb 2020, 11:12 am

Next Army man.



Kitty4670
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21 Feb 2020, 7:10 pm

Karamazov wrote:
That’s very sad :(

Hope he had the decency to apologise for getting your hopes up before cutting them off.

Probably the best for you long term to not get with a guy who can’t cope with you though.


No,he didn’t, he ghosted me, I was waiting on pen & needles for his replied, I waited for over 3 hours, I was scared that he would block me then he unmatch me, I found out he put his profile on private.



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21 Feb 2020, 7:13 pm

He really liked me too, he put new pictures on his profile for me, he didn’t ask me for my email address or my phone number, he was a good guy, I saw pictures of him with his dogs. He was real, he used commas & periods, he didn’t go to alot of different countries. I read alot on catfish On the catfish website & another site.



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22 Feb 2020, 3:04 am

It seems you are taking precautions Kitty to protect yourself online, that's a good thing. It took me well over two years to actually find a man I felt safe enough to give my phone number to on OK Cupid. It is a very artificial environment to be in and not very kind. Meeting people in real life through groups or courses is usually easier on our hearts and safer. I was lonely at the time I was on dating sites but it never filled the void. Many women seek romance and men often just want a hook up or worse. It does work sometimes though, I met men who are still good friends.


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