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Thundragon
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06 Mar 2020, 1:00 am

Hello. This is my 4th topic on the site. I have posted a topic like this before in a different section, so it's more of an update. I go to a social group for people with Asperger's. It's been a year since I first joined. As the title says, I have a crush on a friend I have there. We have similar interests so it's easy to talk to him, and we sometimes play video games together online as well. I have reached a point where I really want to tell him about my feelings, but I don't know how to go about it. He is the only good friend I have at the moment, and I'm afraid to lose what we have. I'm also afraid that I'll only be able to see him only a few times until I move to New Zealand in July (my group meetings are only monthly). We do text, but I don't feel that it's the same as speaking to him in person. I'm hoping that maybe someone can relate or offer advice?



The_Face_of_Boo
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06 Mar 2020, 2:43 am

Ask him out.



AnonymousAnonymous
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08 Mar 2020, 1:46 pm

Keep your relationship at a platonic level for now.


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