Which do you think is a better look for attracting women?

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I’m more attractive to women at nearly 60 than when I was in my 20s.

I’m not particularly “in shape,” though I’m rather healthy.

I’m healthier now than I was when I was younger.

Probably a state of mind thing...

I am definitely less attractive now at 50 although based on the perception of females I interact with face to face. Although my mother thinks I look like George Clooney

OP, there's no magic formula. Of course, keeping well-groomed and in good shape helps. It won't necessarily make up for other less appealing traits (and the other way around).

THANK YOU! Sorry for "shouting", I'm so sick and tired of hearing people echoing each other ad nauseam that you have to be rich to be fit

No you don't but poverty and obesity do overlap because poor people spend more time working 2-3 jobs and rely too much on unhealthy food options as both comfort food (stress relief) and also because its less time consuming than cooking a less tasty home cooked meal with fresh fruits and vegetables.

I never claimed it was easy. I get conflicting information from Americans on the availability of affordable fresh produce. We seem to have it better in Europe, but all food here seems expensive to Americans

I speak as someone who grew up and spent his youth in what could accurately be described as abject poverty. Now I could afford a personal trainer and chef - I don't want or need either to stay in shape.

Good for you BR!

And yes, poverty is not an excuse. People make choices and you can scrounge enough for basic fresh fish/fruit/vegies. It takes self-discipline to avoid junk food.

^
Cheers, it's a touchy subject that often brings the worst out of people

Hmm I guess it depends on the woman. But the way you dress yourself, your haircut and other stuff makes a lot of work already.. Me personally I prefer more the athletic type of men, cause I am myself.. Not too much muscles, but a natural look.

I think most women prefer that slightly athletic look.

Women aren't a monolith. We all do not like the same thing. I personally do not date men who are less than 6ft since I am quite tall as a woman (5'7"). I only date skinny, lean, average or buff guys. I'm not attracted to fat men.

discipline is everything.
also if you're going to get fit, you have to do it for yourself and not for anyone else. women can tell when you're doing stuff just for the sake of getting their attention and such desperation does not come off as attractive to many.

in my experience.. people like genuine people.

sounds fine to me

I like "Pork Bellies" and Pork roast crackling.
Mmmmmm



Justifiable self-confidence is a turn-on,
No matter the sex, imo.

Magz. <sigh>
Did I say that aloud?

Well according to psychological research
https://www.theguardian.com/science/201 ... scientists

“We weren’t surprised that women found physically strong men attractive... what did surprise us was just how powerful the effect was,”

“Our data couldn’t find even a single woman that preferred weaker or feminine male bodies.”

The biggest predictor of how attractive the men were to the women in the study was their perceived physical strength. The men thought to be the strongest made up 70 percent of the men thought to be the most attractive. After further analysis, the researchers also found that women preferred tall and lean men.

What a surprise

Why wouldn't wealth matter?
It isn't the most important thing in a relationship,
And neither is looks,
But it helps.

It is a matter of each individual working out their personal priorities.
"Luv" is much more calculating than many young people think.

Many have called me the personification of Michaelangelos' David,
When I was younger, btw.
Not boasting,
Just stating the Truth.

Erm
Joke.



Or are in gaol.



I agree.
And I too think that most women would prefer a more leaner guy.
Well *I* certainly do!
<cough>
Erm,
If I were a woman.

True,
But it is rare,
All things being equal.



All that lawn mowing would have helped.