alex wrote:
Kitty4670 wrote:
I met a guy a day before my birthday, August 25th. He already wants to meet me. Why men want to hurry in a relationship? I want to take my time, the relationship may last longer if you both go slowly.
What if you meet and realize you aren’t right for each other? Then you wasted all that time talking without meeting first.
I don't see it that way myself, though I am, admittedly rather odd.
The way I see it, even if the relationship doesn't work out, the journey in between can be enjoyable.
*Real* feeling can be felt.
Most things in life become stale and die.
One might at least enjoy some aspect of it before it withers.
Having said that, people need to put a deadline on something like a relationship, so if it doesn't work out, someone has time for a potential new victim, errr, I mean significant other, in their life.