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auntblabby
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22 Nov 2020, 8:43 pm

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22 Nov 2020, 11:14 pm

Welcome back. :D

I'm sorry that your relationship didn't go well.


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10 Dec 2020, 11:49 pm

CockneyRebel wrote:
Welcome back. :D

I'm sorry that your relationship didn't go well.


Thank you, Cockney! :D

If anybody is interested in an update, he and I have been chatting here and there. He seems friendlier and more responsive now. I asked him what went wrong in our relationship, and he said that his schedule didn't allow him the availability for a relationship. I wish he would have just said so from the start, and I also feel that doesn't explain why he locked his social media down and ghosted me for two weeks, but I went along with it.


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11 Dec 2020, 12:03 am

may the goodness increase for you both :star:



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11 Dec 2020, 1:21 pm

OMG, I think how he treated you was so rotten. Communication communication and being secretive in the relationship is a big no no. This would have been a deal breaker for me and made me feel I am not important enough and I was just being used to fill in their time and the fact they were okay with a break up like that means even more they didn't care and I was just their back burner.


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