How to tell if a relationship is healthy

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martianprincess
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17 Nov 2020, 7:33 pm

https://www.loveisrespect.org/quiz/is-y ... althy/?%3E

I found this website that is a great resource for people who may not understand relationships and what is healthy.

They have a quiz so you can quiz yourself and read about the answers.

I hope this helps some of you - I found it to be pretty helpful myself.


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17 Nov 2020, 11:26 pm

I don't understand how that quiz is scored. I got a 37 & anything over 5 is really bad but I answered the majority of the questions in a good positive way :huh: This does not compute :wall:


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18 Nov 2020, 12:27 am

^ Maybe you had a systematic misunderstanding/misclicks due to question wording?

I got a 2 because the questions were absolutes. I don't remember the exact question, but I can't say me friends like my wife because I effectively don't have any friends.



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18 Nov 2020, 1:15 am

martianprincess wrote:
https://www.loveisrespect.org/quiz/is-your-relationship-healthy/?%3E

I found this website that is a great resource for people who may not understand relationships and what is healthy.

They have a quiz so you can quiz yourself and read about the answers.

I hope this helps some of you - I found it to be pretty helpful myself.


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I got the hell outta there, real quick! 8)



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18 Nov 2020, 1:40 am

Feyokien wrote:
^ Maybe you had a systematic misunderstanding/misclicks due to question wording?

I got a 2 because the questions were absolutes. I don't remember the exact question, but I can't say me friends like my wife because I effectively don't have any friends.
Yeah maybe. The absolutes made things more complicated. I would of preferred something closer to middle ground. I don't have friends either but I answered or thought I answered that they did thou cuz I feel my girlfriend gets along with my parents a lot better than I do. My mom criticizes me in front of her.


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18 Nov 2020, 3:34 am

Some questions should be scored as instant death (of relationship).



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18 Nov 2020, 10:40 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Some questions should be scored as instant death (of relationship).

Yes



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18 Nov 2020, 10:54 am

It's a known click-bait site.  Clicking through the overlay sets you up for a hack.  Don't go there.