Girls in Newcastle!

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I travelled up to Newcastle in December 2019 and there were some truly fabulous/beautiful looking girls up in the city.

I noticed when I was out clubbing that a lot of the girls just ignored the men and were simply not interested.

My question is though is that what is wrong with modern day women? Do you really not like us guys?

1. Are you certain they were women, and not merely men in drag?
2. If they were women, are you certain they were "straight" and not solely interested in other women?
3. If they are "straight" women, and as pretty as you say, then they are likely so used to getting hit on by every bloke and chav within a 10-km radius that one lonely stranger from out-of-town does not even show up on their radar.

Yeah true

A lot of older women I know tell me they just have no time for men.

Yeah seriously how do you know the women were straight?

When I see that kind of scene, the guys tend to be absolutely chasing the women.

The women tend to be a bit nervous of it. It's the (slightly more) gentlemanly guys who win out.

The rest of it is mostly for machismo and show.

Also they might have been clubbing to have a night out with the girls rather than for flirtation purposes. Just because clubs are common places to hook up, doesn't mean everyone who's there isn't there for friendship/dancing/drinking reasons. They might have men at home and be on a 'girls' night out'. Heck they might even have been on hen parties - that's usually obvious though from the veils and L plates.

First question. Were you wearing a coat? You have absolutely no street cred in Newcastle if you wear a coat. We are tough nuts up here. The cold doesn't bother us anyway.

Seriously though, us Geordie lasses are tough cookies. You've got to be a stand up guy for us to take any interest. To be fair I'm not the clubbing type, never been clubbing in Newcastle, so I can't really comment, but my younger cousins are very much the types not to be messed around. They have on occassion had a good rant about f****boys.

The thing is a lot of us have been messed around so much by indecisive, wishy-washy boys pretending to be men. So yeah, we have no time for men. The pros of relationships really don't outweigh the cons. Freedom is amazing. Having a man dragging you down is, well, a drag.

Here's a quote from an article I posted in the women's forum:

Depends on the guys. Women care behaviour and social hierarchy. They expect to be approached and you being self-confident. You have to be pretty self-confident or very attractive and dominant for being approached by girls. See them as being female chimps who are after the alpha apes. There are exceptions but it's usually pretty that. Best let it explain that the NT women here or a girl who is like NT girls regarding awareness of social hierarchy.
If you wan't them being interested dress good and behave like a s**thead on top of social hierarchy and cause the other guys to get out of your way for not getting into trouble. Most guys will do just that but NT girls get that differently and may even start to approach you immediately. Has to do with social hierarchy that NT women are after but let a NT woman explain that because I have no idea of it and also lacking the empathy for that.

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I was wearing a smart jacket put took it of when I was in the club.

Real men should always wear a raincoat when planning to meet bar girls.


For protection, you know.

Why is there automatically something wrong with the women because they went to a club for reasons other than hooking up with random guys Seriously that kind of attitude can push women away & make them less interested in men. The modern woman wants to be respected as a person instead of her being required to hook up with any guy who buys her a drink, dances sexually next to her, or uses a cheesy pickup line on her.

In the UK, I think there is a real clubbing scene.
And in some places, drinking is a big thing as well.

In some parts of the UK, young woman hang about in gangs and can be very ladette types, in some case the gangs of woman can be like the female equal to yobs.

In the clubbing scene, i think it is quiet normal for girls to hang together for fun.
When girls go out like this, they often go out to have fun with their mates and aren't that interested in
men.

On other nights the same girls can go out with the aim of pulling.
Also, be aware, that some of these gangs of girls include gangs of girls who are all taken. i.e. married or with long term boyfriend, but prefer to go out drinking with their mates, while their boy friends are in the pub or at home watching the football.

So... have to tread carefully.

As for beautiful girls in Newcastle, for sure, I can believe that.
I lived in Liverpool for 3 years, and Liverpool was also full of beautiful woman.

In fact, I would say that most cities have loads of beautiful woman.
As Hurtloaf above mentioned. In the north, the woman do like to go out and make a show,
have fun and they rarely like to wear coats, even in the middle of the winter.

I have seen woman walk through Liverpool town centre dressed in nothing more than mini skirts, boob tube tops and high heels, on the way to the night club when it is -5 degrees celcius! While i was dressed in thick jumper, coat, jeans, boots, gloves, hat....

But alas, I am a soft southern.... b-stool...

I'm not the one with the flu the next day though....
besides boob tubes never really suited me...

Aspires/autistics just don’t do well with “finding chicks” within “club” settings.

I’ve tried a few times with zero success...except for one very drunk girl who changed her mind upon becoming sober.

What do you mean changed her mind upon becoming sober?

People who hook-up while drunk are said to be "Wearing Beer Goggles"; meaning that alcohol tends to cloud one's perceptions of beauty and lower one's inhibitions.  Sobering up cures this "Beer-Goggle Effect" and the person who thought of you as attractive while he or she was drunk will not think the same way while sober.

I also heard drinking alcohol can increase your feeling of ‘lust’ so that’s not always true that you will not find the person attractive while sober.

While alcohol can reduce inhibitions and allow people to more easily express their "feelings of lust", it can also have a detrimental effect on their ability to perform.

The lady never thought I was unattractive; she just didn't want to have sex with me at that moment. And I understood.

We had a bit of a "phone fling" for about two weeks afterwards. I never saw her again.

I was 21. She was 21 as well, I believe. She was a college student.