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26 Jan 2021, 9:34 am

A lot of women I have encountered don’t trust me and even told me that to my face. One girl even said to me “I don’t trust because you are a weirdo”

Why do you think some guys are untrustworthy to a lot of women?



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26 Jan 2021, 9:49 am

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A lot of women I have encountered don’t trust me and even told me that to my face. One girl even said to me “I don’t trust because you are a weirdo”.  Why do you think some guys are untrustworthy to a lot of women?
Because they act weird.


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26 Jan 2021, 9:57 am

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A lot of women I have encountered don’t trust me and even told me that to my face. One girl even said to me “I don’t trust because you are a weirdo”.  Why do you think some guys are untrustworthy to a lot of women?
Because they act weird.



Shouldn’t difference be rejoiced though instead of hated?



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26 Jan 2021, 10:23 am

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A lot of women I have encountered don’t trust me and even told me that to my face. One girl even said to me “I don’t trust because you are a weirdo”.  Why do you think some guys are untrustworthy to a lot of women?
Because they act weird.
Shouldn’t difference be rejoiced though instead of hated?
Welcome to the Real World, where people fear what is different, and hate what they fear.


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26 Jan 2021, 10:25 am

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A lot of women I have encountered don’t trust me and even told me that to my face. One girl even said to me “I don’t trust because you are a weirdo”.  Why do you think some guys are untrustworthy to a lot of women?
Because they act weird.
Shouldn’t difference be rejoiced though instead of hated?
Welcome to the Real World, where people fear what is different, and hate what they fear.



The real world needs to change its attitude :evil:

One of my older male friends who has Aspergers was also despised by a woman because she thought he was a child snatcher.



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26 Jan 2021, 10:37 am

Jamesy wrote:
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Jamesy wrote:
Fnord wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
A lot of women I have encountered don’t trust me and even told me that to my face. One girl even said to me “I don’t trust because you are a weirdo”.  Why do you think some guys are untrustworthy to a lot of women?
Because they act weird.
Shouldn’t difference be rejoiced though instead of hated?
Welcome to the Real World, where people fear what is different, and hate what they fear.
The real world needs to change its attitude.
No, individuals need to change their behavior.
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One of my older male friends who has Aspergers was also despised by a woman because she thought he was a child snatcher.
I am believe it is likely that it is because he showed an inordinate amount of interest in her children.

I posted This Explanation last year.  You might want to read it.


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26 Jan 2021, 11:02 am

Fnord wrote:
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Jamesy wrote:
Fnord wrote:
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A lot of women I have encountered don’t trust me and even told me that to my face. One girl even said to me “I don’t trust because you are a weirdo”.  Why do you think some guys are untrustworthy to a lot of women?
Because they act weird.
Shouldn’t difference be rejoiced though instead of hated?
Welcome to the Real World, where people fear what is different, and hate what they fear.
The real world needs to change its attitude.
No, individuals need to change their behavior.
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One of my older male friends who has Aspergers was also despised by a woman because she thought he was a child snatcher.
I am likely to believe that it is because he showed an inordinate amount of interest in her children.





My older friend back in the 80s asked if he could watch her child being cleaned in the bath 8O



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26 Jan 2021, 11:04 am

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My older friend back in the 80s asked if he could watch her child being cleaned in the bath 8O
Well, that just screams "PEDO-PERVERT" to me!  No wonder she freaked out.


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26 Jan 2021, 11:10 am

To be honest, that is sort of creepy...

It might not be sexual...but can very well be perceived as such.

It’s not safe to say “I would love to watch your children taking a bath.”

I’m sure James is not that sort of guy. He just hangs out in bars too much.



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26 Jan 2021, 11:11 am

Fnord wrote:
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My older friend back in the 80s asked if he could watch her child being cleaned in the bath 8O
Well, that just screams "PEDO-PERVERT" to me!  No wonder she freaked out.



I know us aspies say inappropriate things but that really is just crossing the line.


My older friend has also said things like "james take me to the bar with you so I can give some girls a blowjob"

also apparently he once asked one of his friend "how he could go about touching up women in a supermarket"

My friend is in his 60s by the way



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26 Jan 2021, 11:13 am

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My older friend back in the 80s asked if he could watch her child being cleaned in the bath 8O
Well, that just screams "PEDO-PERVERT" to me!  No wonder she freaked out.
I know us aspies say inappropriate things but that really is just crossing the line.
He certainly did!  He is lucky she did not sic the cops on him.


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26 Jan 2021, 11:16 am

Your friend is pretty dumbass...if you ask me.



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26 Jan 2021, 11:21 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
Your friend is pretty dumbass...if you ask me.



why do you say that?



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26 Jan 2021, 11:22 am

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... My older friend has also said things like "james take me to the bar with you so I can give some girls a blowjob".  Also apparently he once asked one of his friend "how he could go about touching up women in a supermarket".  My friend is in his 60s by the way.
You asked, "Why do you think some guys are untrustworthy to a lot of women?".  You now have your answer, and it is your friend who has provided the examples.


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26 Jan 2021, 11:25 am

Because he says really stupid things.

Either to provoke, or is really stupid.



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26 Jan 2021, 11:28 am

Fnord wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
... My older friend has also said things like "james take me to the bar with you so I can give some girls a blowjob".  Also apparently he once asked one of his friend "how he could go about touching up women in a supermarket".  My friend is in his 60s by the way.
You asked, "Why do you think some guys are untrustworthy to a lot of women?".  You now have your answer, and it is your friend who has provided the examples.




True but I dont really say inappropriate things like he does even if I have not great social skills.