Jamesy
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Jamesy
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nick007
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funeralxempire
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nick007
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31 May 2021, 1:11 pm
Money isn't necessary. Lots of women sleep with broke dudes, so long as they look good and are charismatic.
31 May 2021, 1:16 pm
funeralxempire
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31 May 2021, 1:22 pm
I've never managed to make my hand squirt.
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funeralxempire
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31 May 2021, 5:12 pm
Why would you want a one night stand?
It's meaningless.
Sex is an expression of love.
Do you feel fanciable if a lass has sex with you for one night?
I am female and they just made me feel cheap and dirty.
I'd rather an asexual deep and meaning ful relationship.
Not everyone feels the way you do, so why would someone who feels differently impose someone else's preferences upon themselves?
31 May 2021, 9:13 pm
CockneyRebel
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nick007
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01 Jun 2021, 1:22 am
It's meaningless.
Sex is an expression of love.
Do you feel fanciable if a lass has sex with you for one night?
I am female and they just made me feel cheap and dirty.
I'd rather an asexual deep and meaning ful relationship.
Not everyone feels the way you do, so why would someone who feels differently impose someone else's preferences upon themselves?
I think I can almost get the appeal of one night stands for the very lonely & frustrated. I sure was very lonely & frustrated when I was single & if I woulda had the offer of a one night stand I might of taken the women up on it hoping it might could end up becoming a romantic relationship. & even if I knew it would never be anything more than a one time sex thing, at least I woulda got to do something with someone instead of sleeping in a bed by myself that night. I could maybe pretend & have a distraction & escape from my loneliness for one brief moment.
funeralxempire
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01 Jun 2021, 1:46 am
It's meaningless.
Sex is an expression of love.
Do you feel fanciable if a lass has sex with you for one night?
I am female and they just made me feel cheap and dirty.
I'd rather an asexual deep and meaning ful relationship.
Not everyone feels the way you do, so why would someone who feels differently impose someone else's preferences upon themselves?
I think I can almost get the appeal of one night stands for the very lonely & frustrated. I sure was very lonely & frustrated when I was single & if I woulda had the offer of a one night stand I might of taken the women up on it hoping it might could end up becoming a romantic relationship. & even if I knew it would never be anything more than a one time sex thing, at least I woulda got to do something with someone instead of sleeping in a bed by myself that night. I could maybe pretend & have a distraction & escape from my loneliness for one brief moment.Getting someone off and figuring out what gets them off in a short period is intellectually stimulating, feels transgressive and requires one to understand the difference between tempting and pressuring. It's super rewarding when you're able to succeed at that game, on levels that masturbating don't ever address.
Think about any other scenario where you talk someone into participating in a scheme with you, it's rewarding right?
In this case you're plotting a scheme, the scheme is to bump uglys and make the room stink, maybe even make a mess and enjoy an endorphin rush while you do it. It has all of the social rewards that pulling off any other short term plan with another person provides, but there's also the excitement of violating social norms.
Getting off isn't even the best part, it's just a part.
