Should I try to date 'bad girls' in this sense?

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I agree with Sweetleaf about finding someone more compatible in that way.

My question is: How do I find someone I am compatible with sexually without people thinking that's all I want?

good sex is the product of a good connection.

Chicken hens don’t have teeth.

Bad as come from a troubled home or bad as in potentially crazy? Yes or maybe if they're rational to the first, heck no to the second.

Oh are you asking me? Well I mean bad girl as in mostly in the bedroom, but it seems that those sexual qualities a woman possesses takes a backstep to dating. What I mean more so is, is that that the kinky is a woman in bed, the less date-able she seems in my experience. The more kinky ones just have more baggage to do deal with. I am not judging or stereortyping when I say this, I am just going by personal experience over the years.

Have you talked to your girlfriend, given her feedback on what you enjoy and dislike that she does? I mean its not fair to her to not know that you're having these troubles when everything else is going well and youve both worked on making a good foundation. A foundation for a relationship is much more important and hard to obtain in the world than good sex.
I think she should know the sex is a major issue that needs to be quickly worked hard on because it's gotten to the point you're really considering leaving. Part of committing to a partner is trying to work out the issues, not leaving to seek someone better because someone better is always out there waiting, whether its a better kisser, a better sex expert, or a better more reliable communicator.
Have you considered sex therapy? This would address a lot of the causes you are struggling in your sex life with.
Have you guided your girlfriend, asked things from her that youd like and how youd like them done? Sounds more like an excuse to break up than something that can't actually be worked on, to me. have you lost interest in this person/relationship?
You're free to do whatever you like, but remember, if you run for the rest of your life from this stage youll never fully be satisfied and find your place and stability.

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The problem is sex therapy is that it's really expensive though and I was trying to avoid that if possible.

I told her what I like but when she does it it feels like she's like an actress putting on a performance rather than actually believing in what she's doing if that makes sense? or maybe that's my problem because I'm looking for too much realism?