Should I try to date 'bad girls' in this sense?
You haven't answered my question.
We have narrowed down the field to the bedroom.
I always assumed that to be the case.
Then, in the bedroom, what makes a gurl "bad"?
And how bad is *too* bad?
Or is there no such thing as "too bad".
I guess a woman who is willing to do what I want but sometimes maybe I feel like I'm asking for too much when it comes to some women or at least the ones who I considered to be dating material more if that makes sense? I don't know if I should get into specifics on here...
So, we are talking about anal.
It is quite common, these days.
And a broad mind on either side of the relationship.
Agreed. A good connection can result in inspiring someone to be more sexual, try more sexual things, and connect sexually more often.
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You haven't answered my question.
We have narrowed down the field to the bedroom.
I always assumed that to be the case.
Then, in the bedroom, what makes a gurl "bad"?
And how bad is *too* bad?
Or is there no such thing as "too bad".
I guess a woman who is willing to do what I want but sometimes maybe I feel like I'm asking for too much when it comes to some women or at least the ones who I considered to be dating material more if that makes sense? I don't know if I should get into specifics on here...
So, we are talking about anal.
It is quite common, these days.
No not that. I just find it hot when a woman becomes all dominating and makes it all about me. But I'm also kind of embarrassed to push it on someone who is not into it because it is a selfish way for a guy to be even though it turns me on. If that's bad?
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Well I think the problem is, is that it was said before that I have a "madonna/whore complex" and I think that is why I am having trouble being sexually turned on by my current gf is because she is not promiscuous, since she is with me of course. So how does a guy how have that complex, just get rid of it, if I can do that myself?
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You haven't answered my question.
We have narrowed down the field to the bedroom.
I always assumed that to be the case.
Then, in the bedroom, what makes a gurl "bad"?
And how bad is *too* bad?
Or is there no such thing as "too bad".
I guess a woman who is willing to do what I want but sometimes maybe I feel like I'm asking for too much when it comes to some women or at least the ones who I considered to be dating material more if that makes sense? I don't know if I should get into specifics on here...
So, we are talking about anal.
It is quite common, these days.
No not that. I just find it hot when a woman becomes all dominating and makes it all about me. But I'm also kind of embarrassed to push it on someone who is not into it because it is a selfish way for a guy to be even though it turns me on. If that's bad?
Well that there seems to be the real issue, is she into it at all? or not at all.
That said its not that selfish, it's just what some people like nothing wrong with it, but could certainly be an issue if your relationship partner can't satisfy in that area. Not sure you can just turn that off and be satisfied with boring sex.
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You haven't answered my question.
We have narrowed down the field to the bedroom.
I always assumed that to be the case.
Then, in the bedroom, what makes a gurl "bad"?
And how bad is *too* bad?
Or is there no such thing as "too bad".
I guess a woman who is willing to do what I want but sometimes maybe I feel like I'm asking for too much when it comes to some women or at least the ones who I considered to be dating material more if that makes sense? I don't know if I should get into specifics on here...
So, we are talking about anal.
It is quite common, these days.
No not that. I just find it hot when a woman becomes all dominating and makes it all about me. But I'm also kind of embarrassed to push it on someone who is not into it because it is a selfish way for a guy to be even though it turns me on. If that's bad?
Oh, Ok.
I thought *you* were the dominant one.
What is your position on fisting, btw?
You haven't answered my question.
We have narrowed down the field to the bedroom.
I always assumed that to be the case.
Then, in the bedroom, what makes a gurl "bad"?
And how bad is *too* bad?
Or is there no such thing as "too bad".
I guess a woman who is willing to do what I want but sometimes maybe I feel like I'm asking for too much when it comes to some women or at least the ones who I considered to be dating material more if that makes sense? I don't know if I should get into specifics on here...
So, we are talking about anal.
It is quite common, these days.
No not that. I just find it hot when a woman becomes all dominating and makes it all about me. But I'm also kind of embarrassed to push it on someone who is not into it because it is a selfish way for a guy to be even though it turns me on. If that's bad?
Well that there seems to be the real issue, is she into it at all? or not at all.
That said its not that selfish, it's just what some people like nothing wrong with it, but could certainly be an issue if your relationship partner can't satisfy in that area. Not sure you can just turn that off and be satisfied with boring sex.
At his age, an unfulfilling sex life will probably mean the relationship will fail, ultimately.
There is enough frustration in life without that.
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"The penis wants what the penis wants."
Genetic programming in evidence.
You seem to be a typical male.
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"The penis wants what the penis wants."
Genetic programming in evidence.
You seem to be a typical male.
Sex is very impotent important, to the OP.
I think that is pretty clear.
He is still young, after all.
Testosterone levels, you know.
"The penis wants what the penis wants."
Genetic programming in evidence.
You seem to be a typical male.
Oh okay thanks for the suggestion! I could do that and not concentrate on sex as much, it's just my gf might think something is wrong if I am not putting out as much so to speak.
You haven't answered my question.
We have narrowed down the field to the bedroom.
I always assumed that to be the case.
Then, in the bedroom, what makes a gurl "bad"?
And how bad is *too* bad?
Or is there no such thing as "too bad".
I guess a woman who is willing to do what I want but sometimes maybe I feel like I'm asking for too much when it comes to some women or at least the ones who I considered to be dating material more if that makes sense? I don't know if I should get into specifics on here...
So, we are talking about anal.
It is quite common, these days.
No not that. I just find it hot when a woman becomes all dominating and makes it all about me. But I'm also kind of embarrassed to push it on someone who is not into it because it is a selfish way for a guy to be even though it turns me on. If that's bad?
Well that there seems to be the real issue, is she into it at all? or not at all.
That said its not that selfish, it's just what some people like nothing wrong with it, but could certainly be an issue if your relationship partner can't satisfy in that area. Not sure you can just turn that off and be satisfied with boring sex.
At his age, an unfulfilling sex life will probably mean the relationship will fail, ultimately.
There is enough frustration in life without that.
Well is it possible not to have as high of standards of what turns me in the bedroom? For example I talked to women I know about it and they say it's strange because in their experience, all they need to do is lay there and and as long as they have a vagina, the guy couldn't be any more pleased. Is it possible to make myself as easily satisfied as those guys, if that's quite common?
I am one of those who are easily pleased.
Alas...
"The penis wants what the penis wants."
Genetic programming in evidence.
You seem to be a typical male.
Oh okay thanks for the suggestion! I could do that and not concentrate on sex as much, it's just my gf might think something is wrong if I am not putting out as much so to speak.
Here is another suggestion:
Fall in luv with your girlfriend.
Your life will fill with bliss simply by holding her hand.
But alas...
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Well is it possible not to have as high of standards of what turns me in the bedroom? For example I talked to women I know about it and they say it's strange because in their experience, all they need to do is lay there and and as long as they have a vagina, the guy couldn't be any more pleased. Is it possible to make myself as easily satisfied as those guys, if that's quite common?
I don't think so, also though it's more of a preference than a high standard.
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