Should I date her or not?

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14 Dec 2021, 5:18 pm

There’s this 59 year old lady with some missing teeth who really likes me at the moment even though I do not find her attractive at all.

Do you think I should start a relationship with her? Also does it matter if she’s nearly 30 years my senior?

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14 Dec 2021, 5:21 pm

If you don't find her attractive, don't date her.

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14 Dec 2021, 5:21 pm

Jamesy wrote:

There’s this 59 year old lady who really likes me at the moment even though I do not find her attractive at all...

Are you desperate for motherly attention?

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14 Dec 2021, 5:23 pm

Fnord wrote:

Jamesy wrote:

There’s this 59 year old lady who really likes me at the moment even though I do not find her attractive at all...

Are you desperate for motherly attention?

Not not at all

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14 Dec 2021, 5:30 pm

Well at least she can tell you tales about the first Gulf War.

I would definitely give her a miss too.

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14 Dec 2021, 5:31 pm

Jamesy wrote:

Fnord wrote:

Jamesy wrote:

There’s this 59 year old lady who really likes me at the moment even though I do not find her attractive at all...

Are you desperate for motherly attention?

Not not at all

Then why even bother asking? For that matter, why bother asking us?

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14 Dec 2021, 5:34 pm

Jamesy wrote:

I do not find her attractive at all.

Then don't date her, for her sake. She deserves someone who actually cares about her.

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14 Dec 2021, 5:41 pm

Actually thinking about it now she could teach me a thing or 2 about the dating world since she has more experience….

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14 Dec 2021, 5:46 pm

There is nothing wrong with being a gigolo, either.

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14 Dec 2021, 6:02 pm

Is she a decent person, at least?

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14 Dec 2021, 6:10 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:

Is she a decent person, at least?

Not really

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14 Dec 2021, 6:44 pm

Fnord wrote:

There is nothing wrong with being a gigolo, either.

Lol

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14 Dec 2021, 8:37 pm

Jamesy wrote:

You can always hookup with her or have a fling with her without making it exclusive. The advantage of this is that you get sexual experience (which may be beneficial if you're a virgin or sexually inexperienced in general) without worrying about having to become exclusive with someone you don't actually like all that much. You just have to be upfront about what you want and she can either take it or leave it and you can't get mad over what she says.

But if you're not physically attracted to her at all, then I don't see the point, since hooking up with someone probably includes at least some level of physical attraction, even if it's just a small amount.

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16 Dec 2021, 11:42 am

Jamesy wrote:

kraftiekortie wrote:

Is she a decent person, at least?

Not really

What do you mean?

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16 Dec 2021, 11:48 am

Atleast you wont ever have to worry about getting her pregnant. LOL. Jamesy do you have a brain in your head. Can't you make any decision on your own?

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16 Dec 2021, 11:53 am

She must have more than just a few teeth missing if she's interested in him.

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