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04 May 2022, 5:00 am

In recent years I have noticed that black women seem to be attracted to me.

My question is do a lot of black girls find white men more attractive? In terms of my colouring I have brown hair (can go blonde in the summer) and greeney brown eyes and yes I am a white guy lol although I do tan quite easily in the sun 8)



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04 May 2022, 5:54 am

Some do. Some don’t.



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04 May 2022, 9:16 am

At the pub last Saturday this black woman said she would defnintley date me which is strange since she already has a partner.

Not sure if she was being sarcastic or not?



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04 May 2022, 2:50 pm

It might just mean that she would date you if she didn't have a partner. But she has a partner---so she can't date you.



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04 May 2022, 3:05 pm

How many total have openly displayed a soft spot? You might be seeing more of a trend than genuinely exists because those interactions are more memorable.


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04 May 2022, 3:07 pm

funeralxempire wrote:
How many total have openly displayed a soft spot? You might be seeing more of a trend than genuinely exists because those interactions are more memorable.



Well you don’t get many black people in my town really.



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04 May 2022, 3:12 pm

Jamesy wrote:
funeralxempire wrote:
How many total have openly displayed a soft spot? You might be seeing more of a trend than genuinely exists because those interactions are more memorable.



Well you don’t get many black people in my town really.


You can see how a very limited sample population might limit the ability to draw conclusions though, right?


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04 May 2022, 4:00 pm

Jamesy wrote:
At the pub last Saturday this black woman said she would defnintley date me which is strange since she already has a partner.

Not sure if she was being sarcastic or not?


I don't think she was just being sarcastic as she probably wouldnt say that to just anyone.

Also it depends, did she just turn to you and say that, were you having a little conversation before...etc.



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04 May 2022, 4:31 pm

klanka wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
At the pub last Saturday this black woman said she would defnintley date me which is strange since she already has a partner.

Not sure if she was being sarcastic or not?


I don't think she was just being sarcastic as she probably wouldnt say that to just anyone.

Also it depends, did she just turn to you and say that, were you having a little conversation before...etc.




I was a bit tipsy when she said it to me :lol:



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04 May 2022, 5:20 pm

I am married to an African born black woman. Can't say it's because of a soft spot. And the saying is true: Once you go black, you can never go back 8)


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04 May 2022, 5:30 pm

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I am married to an African born black woman. Can't say it's because of a soft spot. And the saying is true: Once you go black, you can never go back 8)



I have always had a preference for women of my own race personally.



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04 May 2022, 5:31 pm

^What country is she from?

I'm married to a black Caribbean woman from Trinidad and Tobago. I used to have an especial regard for African-descended people---but now, I believe every "race" has their own wonderful aesthetics.



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04 May 2022, 7:32 pm

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^What country is she from?

I'm married to a black Caribbean woman from Trinidad and Tobago. I used to have an especial regard for African-descended people---but now, I believe every "race" has their own wonderful aesthetics.


And looks like someone beat you to the punch on posting a response..

Mine is from Zambia


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04 May 2022, 8:35 pm

One thing good about Zambia: it has a nice, subtropical climate.



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05 May 2022, 1:49 am

aspiemike wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
^What country is she from?

I'm married to a black Caribbean woman from Trinidad and Tobago. I used to have an especial regard for African-descended people---but now, I believe every "race" has their own wonderful aesthetics.


And looks like someone beat you to the punch on posting a response..

Mine is from Zambia


Oh wow! my late uncle who worked as an expat engineer in Zambia had a wife there. He passed away and left behind a son (my cousin) whom I have never met but must be in his 30s now.



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05 May 2022, 2:41 am

black is beautiful, as they say. 8) :afro: