No Contact Phase After Breakup
Long time, no see, everyone!
I've been a little depressed over a recent breakup. About a month ago my boyfriend of one year and I broke up. He had been struggling in his life for several months, and as a result he became depressed and withdrawn. He stopped wanting to do anything and he didn't text as much.
Our breakup was amicable, and his breakup text was well-thought out and loving. He basically said he loved me, but he was no longer present for me and I deserved better, and that he needed to work on himself. That was a little over a month ago and I haven't heard from him since, even though I've texted him a few times since then. We're still friends on Facebook, though.
How should I handle this? I'm wondering if he misses me as much as I miss him. I would love to reconcile with him in the future and pick up where we left off. But I'm wondering why he hasn't been talking to me even though our breakup was amicable.
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Thanks! He clearly suffers from depression. He and his roommate confirmed that he's been depressed. On top of that, he refuses to seek any help for it because he doesn't feel it'll address his problems, e.g. his financial hardships. He seems to be the self-reliant type, because he refused help from me or anybody else.
Like I said, we're still friends on Facebook, so I take that as a good sign. I just wish he'd text me, though.
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