CosmicFerrets wrote:
She had to reschedule but we'll do it next weekend instead.
My sister advised me to text her to ask her out afterwards, rather than verbally. This is because it will give her some time to think about it rather than put her on the spot and have her freak out.
I think this makes sense - I have been asked out once before and I hated it because I am incapable of politely rejecting someone without thinking about how to say it beforehand.
However do you think texting also come off as being a bit chicken?
It makes sense, but I dunno, maybe it is too soon? Guess you'll know more after first hang.
How long will you both be working on the same team though, and how important is that in your life, as opposed to delaying a little longer?
Can also just ask her more casually for coffee or something sometime, gradually increase social hangs, then lower risk of damaging the project/your relationship with her and rest of team, and maybe you'll find out she has this terrible snort of a food laugh and kill off your crush anyhow? Assuming you can be as shallow as me? Actually can't think of anything that might have that effect on me immediately, but I know someone who really heated the way another friend of mine laughed.
Admittedly, you could be in a hall of 500 people, you'd hear this crazy loud laugh, and anyone who knew him would be able to say, oh he's here!
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