Summer_Twilight wrote:
I am going to go ahead and say yes because you when you have sex you want to have it with someone who you not only trust but feel committed to. It also has to be a two-way street in which both parties feel ready because it's a risky business.
I don't know why, but percentage of women who agree with me is greater than that of man. Maybe, this is an evolutionary thing or something. But, I am at an extreme point when I am compared with other men.
I have an inclination to connect only one woman and be blind to all other women in the world. This is beyond loyalty. Because I don't need to control my impulses. My logic controls everything I guess. For example, when I learned the harmful effects of cigarette and alcohol, sugar and etc I stopped to use them. And never touched. When I learned why we have to protect the environment, I changed my harmful behaviors. I have almost no exception in my ethic/philosophical beliefs.
Because when I learn something, it affects my understanding, my senses, my lust, everything. I read many books, I guess, my brain changed according to those information.
Not because of books, but also my experiences and my observations of others ease this. I take every good thing that I saw in other people and give up bad ones.
All of these may be because of an inner desire to be perfect ... for being a man who deserves to be loved... because I never felt to be loved by someone. I may be trying to full this void.