Joined: 22 May 2016 Age: 33 Gender: Male Posts: 353
21 Oct 2022, 10:12 am
Typically with an age gap between an older man and younger woman, there's a concern about abuse of power. But Billie has money, fame, connection and power. I'd argue she has more power than he does.
My grandparents had that age gap, my sister had a 20 something age gap (but he was controlling) personally you can date who you want as it doesn't really effect me. I mean a lot of my friends are dating guys 10 years younger than them. As long as it makes them happy at the end of the day.
Joined: 3 Nov 2015 Age: 39 Posts: 5,590 Location: canada
21 Oct 2022, 4:31 pm
Am a millennial and my gf is gen z. We got negative reactions fir it at first but I find this movement to be contradictory because it seems it's the more progressive types pushing it, yet they are all for being open minded to interracial dating or LGBTQ+ dating, but are judgemental it seems, when it comes to age gap dating.
Joined: 4 Feb 2014 Gender: Male Posts: 87,510 Location: Queens, NYC
21 Oct 2022, 6:30 pm
I don't know of any "progressive" types who are really against "age-gap" dating.
I have more of a problem with reactionaries than I do with progressives.
Most sensible people are aware that this was rather common in previous generations-----and that many happy couples were formed by people with a decent age-difference.
The French people aren't stupid. They realize that President Macron is a really happy camper with his much older wife.
Joined: 31 Jul 2020 Age: 309 Gender: Non-binary Posts: 2,941 Location: I'm stuck in the dryer
21 Oct 2022, 6:44 pm
Billie Eilish... One of my ex's was watching this awful movie one night while passed out on the couch. The credits came on and a song started playing. That got my attention. I had to find out what that song was and who the artist was. The song was great. Turns out it was Billie Eilish. I'm not familiar with all of all of her stuff, but I like what I've heard. I have a hard time finding 'new' music I like, but I do like her stuff. I should probably listen to more one of these days...
As for who she is or isn't dating...why should I care? It's not like I know either of them. It's not really any of my business. But as for age gaps in general, I have no issue with that at all. So long as both people are happy (and legal adults) that's all that matters to me. If it works, it works.
Joined: 1 Nov 2017 Gender: Female Posts: 68,666 Location: Chez Quis
21 Oct 2022, 7:03 pm
I never heard any of these terms "Gen X, Millennial, Boomer, etc." until I joined WP. I wish people would stop categorising others with prejudice about their age / personality. Enough with putting people in boxes.
Also who gives a carp how old someone's partner is?
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