PIERINA wrote:
I honestly don’t know how you can stand the stuff he’s doing and I’m a lot like him myself. You’re being very patient and putting up with a lot so must like him a lot. I think you might need to tell him to squeeze you into his tight schedule at least 2x a week for at least a few hours each time. I love you but I’m not in love with you anymore but I still want to kiss you and play with your feet and I no time for you. Does this stuff hurt your feelings? I hope not. It would hurt my feelings. Maybe I’m too sensitive but it would feel like abuse to me. It’s my opinion that on the spectrum or not he has no right to be this rude to you. I’d still probably give him a few more chances though but I’d cutoff the kissing and foot play until things feel right
To be honest with you, no it doesn't hurt my feelings anymore. Rather, I have learned to accept him for who he is but I do wish that he would pay more attention to me.
For example, there was a cook-out back in Sept and he happened to be off work but told me he had no plans of going because he had just come back from out of town and had a lot to do around the house. Yet, I saw him going back and forth taking things to the dump he just completely ignored me. I also noticed that every time he walked by the clubhouse, I saw him putting his headphones in.