Is it pointless to have sex just to say ''you've done it'' ?

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there is an association of sex workers that calls itself "C.O.Y.O.T.E" [Call Off Your Old Tired Ethics] that wants sex work legalized and regulated like it is in most of the rest of the western world. amuuuurica is the last bastion of this kind of puritanism.

can a leopard change its spots? this one repeatedly tried but found that he just can't. i yam what i yam.

No it's not pointless because people can't tease me about being a virgin anymore!

Once I can get my new boyfriend alone if he's ready I want to shed my "virgin" image!

I want to at least try sex even if I don't want to get pregnant

You can have sex without getting pregnant as long as you don't do penetration

No it just means I'm ready to untether from my mom and experience adulthood

I am 30 years old and should start thinking about true love, marriage and yes... sex

Yes, I'm being pedantic

In the English language, it is generally deduced that "having sex" means "penetration." Except when it comes to lesbians "making love" with each other.

I would say it's fine to "make out" or "make love" without penetration, since there is risk of pregnancy in “penetration”, even when both the man and woman are protected with things like condoms, diaphragms, or The Pill (though, of course, there is much less risk of pregnancy if "protected.")

And I would say: if you want to feel like you're having sex when there is no "penetration," then it would be okay with me If done right, one would have at least almost the amount of pleasure one would have within actual "sexual intercourse."

It’s also possible to have oral or anal sex complete with penetration and no risk of pregnancy.

As for vaginal sex, it’s better to use a condom than to not have sex at all. And modern thin condoms (like my go to durex sensi-thin) barely feel different than bare. Plus they do provide a bit of desensitizing so the male partner lasts longer.

I completely understand some guys hate for condoms if all they’ve ever worn are something like regular “Lifestyles,” brand condoms that are so thick you may as well be wearing a tire since you can’t hardly feel anything. Terrible. It’s such a shame that these are often the ones given out for free - makes for a bad experience and people reluctant to use condoms at all, which obviously isn’t good for preventing the spread of sti’s or unwanted pregnancies.

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No for supporting trump. Because doing so is deplorable.

"Pulling out" is pretty emotionally "painful," though not usually physically painful.

And.....it doesn't work as a birth control method.

What the heck is a virgin image?

I really, honestly, don't think there's anything wrong with being a virgin-----both male and female.

People always thought, in my life, that I was less "experienced" than what actually was true at the time.