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17 Jan 2023, 3:15 am

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If she smiled or giggled, it sounds to me like she wanted to appear humble and bashful about the compliment.

If she kept a straight face or gave you the evil eye, she‘s annoyed and wants you to stop hitting on her.


There's a third option, she could physically attack Jamesy :lol:



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17 Jan 2023, 7:49 am

In real life, unless she’s really drunk, women don’t attack men merely for stupid pickup lines.

Women usually don’t act like idiots in public like men sometimes do.



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17 Jan 2023, 12:16 pm

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In real life, unless she’s really drunk, women don’t attack men merely for stupid pickup lines.

Women usually don’t act like idiots in public like men sometimes do.



LOL 4 years ago she holds hands with me and today she attacks me. What a contrast



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17 Jan 2023, 12:21 pm

She attacked you?

If you mean the f-off that’s often just banter between friends or people who are comfortable together (See my Option 1). For example I’d tell Recidivist or WAI to f-off in a joking way if we’d had a pint and they made me laugh.

Option 2 would be reserved for trolls or people who didn’t respect my boundaries. If I drunk-danced with someone years before and he was still acting like I owed him a relationship or my affection, depending on the circumstance I’d tell him to f-off in no uncertain terms.


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17 Jan 2023, 12:30 pm

Village drama.

Same people at a bar year after year.

Are you sure you weren't so drunk you were talking to the bicycle left outside?


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17 Jan 2023, 12:33 pm

She didn’t attack him, it seems to me. She merely gave him the brush-off.



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17 Jan 2023, 12:49 pm

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She attacked you?

If you mean the f-off that’s often just banter between friends or people who are comfortable together (See my Option 1). For example I’d tell Recidivist or WAI to f-off in a joking way if we’d had a pint and they made me laugh.

Option 2 would be reserved for trolls or people who didn’t respect my boundaries. If I drunk-danced with someone years before and he was still acting like I owed him a relationship or my affection, depending on the circumstance I’d tell him to f-off in no uncertain terms.





No I was joking about her attacking me.


I am On a hiding to nothing trying to find a relationship at bars



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17 Jan 2023, 2:08 pm

I think I would be scarred for life if one had turned to me and said "Bugger off, mate!" in a deep, manly voice.

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A transvestite. 8O


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17 Jan 2023, 3:54 pm

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^ But even though it was quiet, if you were the recipient, would you be distressed by the hostility for the rest of the night?

I know I would be. I won't have said something that dumb, but I've had other blunders.


Fnord surprised me, he seems to know the psychology of single white women better than I thought


You don't get to stay happily married unless you know a thing or two about how the operating system works in the other sex.


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17 Jan 2023, 4:07 pm

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I think I would be scarred for life if one had turned to me and said "Bugger off, mate!" in a deep, manly voice.
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A transvestite. 8O


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Your comment reminds me of this alleged social experiment at the 2:40 mark.

*Warning. Do not watch if you are offended at bad language.

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17 Jan 2023, 4:17 pm

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You don't get to stay happily married unless you know a thing or two about how the operating system works in the other sex.


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f*** off :twisted:



Do they cum with free VPN?


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17 Jan 2023, 4:36 pm

Recidivist wrote:
r00tb33r wrote:
I think I would be scarred for life if one had turned to me and said "Bugger off, mate!" in a deep, manly voice.
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A transvestite. 8O


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Your comment reminds me of this alleged social experiment at the 2:40 mark.

*Warning. Do not watch if you are offended at bad language.

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That's harassing and shaming.

I was just talking about the shock and trauma from the unexpected encounter.


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17 Jan 2023, 4:45 pm

The video: *SPOILER*

OMG I was almost in tears. I would have been there with my loud mouth beating the hell outta those pigs and helping the woman. I was so shocked that anyone would act like that black man or give two shites about another person's gender. I'm so glad he was in on it.


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17 Jan 2023, 5:12 pm

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f*** off :twisted:



Now I'm in Jamesy's position, not knowing if you're are serious, semi-serious or being an outrageous flirt :P

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Do they cum with free VPN?


Some do. Paying for it gives you a better experience :twisted:


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17 Jan 2023, 5:14 pm

Quite rude of her to tell me to “f**k off” really but then alcohol can make people ruder I guess.



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17 Jan 2023, 5:27 pm

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That's harassing and shaming.

I was just talking about the shock and trauma from the unexpected encounter.


Actual behaviour like that is.

Just so you know, in no way was I implying you are trying to harass or shame, it was just my brain making a connection.


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