I am sick of older women being interested in me

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20 May 2023, 11:15 pm

One of my acquaintances pointed out last night at the pub how much older women always seem to find me attractive.

Anything I can do to change this? Women my own age are not interested and younger women like 20 will not even look at me.

I am not trolling by asking this question but I just need some advice in this

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20 May 2023, 11:47 pm

You don't like older women, but you want 20 year old women to like older men?

Explain.

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20 May 2023, 11:50 pm

IsabellaLinton wrote:

You think it's wrong for older people to like you, but you want 20 year women to like older men?

It is a puzzlement, n'cest pas?

I too am curious as to why he is this way.

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20 May 2023, 11:52 pm

IsabellaLinton wrote:

You don't like older women, but you want 20 year old women to like older men?

Explain.

33 is not really that much older than 20 though is it

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20 May 2023, 11:52 pm

Jamesy wrote:

IsabellaLinton wrote:

You don't like older women, but you want 20 year old women to like older men? Explain.

33 is not really that much older than 20 though is it

It is as old as 46 is to 33.

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20 May 2023, 11:55 pm

Do you date 46 year-olds, Jamesy?

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20 May 2023, 11:57 pm

If you refuse to date a 46 year old woman, Jamesy, then you should accept being refused a date by a 20 year old woman as well.

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20 May 2023, 11:59 pm

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If you refuse to date a 46 year old woman, Jamesy, then you should accept being refused a date by a 20 year old woman as well.

What about accepting women my own age not being interested in dating me?

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21 May 2023, 12:00 am

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Do you date 46 year-olds, Jamesy?

Not at the moment no. I have never really dated anyone.

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21 May 2023, 12:09 am

It's OK if you don't like older women.
You just have to accept young women might not like older men.

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21 May 2023, 12:12 am

IsabellaLinton wrote:

It's OK if you don't like older women.
You just have to accept young women might not like older men.

What about women my own age? Might they prefer 18/20 year old guys?

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21 May 2023, 12:14 am

Maybe? I don't know. You'd have to ask them.

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21 May 2023, 12:17 am

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Maybe? I don't know. You'd have to ask them.

I don't many women my age and I am not on there radar.

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21 May 2023, 12:18 am

Personally, I've always been attracted to older dudes.
I've dated men from 5-14 years older.
It's because I was really serious when I was younger.
I wasn't into pubs and parties.

(I've crushed on a few men a little younger.)

If I were to date a woman I'd go with someone older too.

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21 May 2023, 12:25 am

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I am invisible to women my age much like how 20 year olds don't notice me.

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21 May 2023, 1:09 am

Jamesy wrote:

Fnord wrote:

If you refuse to date a 46 year old woman, Jamesy, then you should accept being refused a date by a 20 year old woman as well.

What about accepting women my own age not being interested in dating me?

Sure. They can tell when you are desperate or just wanting to get laid. Lighten up and you may have better luck.

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