Looking for Connection – from Someone Who Understands

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MackemGeordie
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15 Jun 2025, 5:39 pm

Hello,

I’m a 63-year-old autistic man living a very isolated life in the North East of England. I’ve spent most of my life in silence — caring for others, but never really having anyone close to me. I live with autism, depression, and long-term health problems.

I’ve never had a lasting emotional connection, and it’s something I still quietly long for — even now.

I’m not expecting anything grand. I’d just really value chatting with someone who understands what it’s like to be neurodivergent, alone, and older in a world that moves too fast.

If this resonates with you, I’d love to hear from you — even just to exchange a few kind words.

Thank you for reading.
– John
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15 Jun 2025, 5:51 pm

Hi John and welcome to WP. My experience is similar to yours. No friends, living from day to day with no sense of direction.


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15 Jun 2025, 11:35 pm

Hi John


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17 Jun 2025, 1:25 am

Hello John, welcome to Wrong Planet. I hope you find what you are looking for on here.



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27 Jun 2025, 1:50 pm

Hi John,

You live in a beautiful part of England!

I think that most of us are looking for connection with someone who understands, myself included.

What do you like most about where you live?


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27 Jun 2025, 7:33 pm

Hi John. What is it like where you live? I would love to visit England someday.

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27 Jun 2025, 8:21 pm

Ahoy-hoy John, I'm half your age, but at times the strife I have endured makes me forget my age. I've known many close connections, but I can relate to simply and silently caring for others. I often feel that a great many things go unsaid in life. It is tragic that some of these things never find a voice, but the fact they exist is still something of value.

I hope your health improves and your outlook may brighten.