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Brian003
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12 Sep 2007, 4:14 pm

Kilroy wrote:
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No I don't want your complements I want your honesty
I'm not digging for anything-I think I am unattractive and I want your opinions
thank you


No.



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12 Sep 2007, 5:41 pm

Kilroy wrote:
http://i17.tinypic.com/4vq29mb.jpg
No I don't want your complements I want your honesty
I'm not digging for anything-I think I am unattractive and I want your opinions
thank you


You look just fine to me.

Funny, I too have struggled with knowing what I look like, I used to think it was me just being insecure, but have come to realise it's probably to do with AS as well.



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12 Sep 2007, 7:32 pm

Definitely above average on the attractive scale.


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13 Sep 2007, 8:54 am

Kilroy, you've got a bit of the rocker dude thing going on, which is a cool look. Nice hair.

But honestly, you need clothes that fit.



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13 Sep 2007, 12:22 pm

Kilroy wrote:
http://i17.tinypic.com/4vq29mb.jpg
No I don't want your complements I want your honesty
I'm not digging for anything-I think I am unattractive and I want your opinions
thank you


You're a really good looking guy, just remember: What people find good looking is different for every person, there are some "universals" but what someone finds *attractive* (as in makes them feel the strong gut instinct of intense sexual attraction) is genetically determined by and large, with some social influences / leeway.

I'm curious why did you ask, if you don't mind.