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T-Bone
Tufted Titmouse

Joined: 1 Oct 2009
Age: 48
Gender: Male
Posts: 36

20 Nov 2009, 9:11 am

Depending on definition, using most strict definition, lost it at 29. Haven't had anything since.

Steffy
Yellow-bellied Woodpecker

Joined: 12 Jan 2010
Age: 34
Gender: Female
Posts: 62
Location: St. Louis, Missouri

13 Jan 2010, 5:45 pm

Vince wrote:

I'm 20 (going on 21) and a virgin, and I wouldn't give it up to anyone who doesn't need me. It'd have to be someone I care about and who cares about me and really needs me. And I have this deep feeling that nobody could ever care about, need or even want me (and even if anyone did, they'd probably just send "signals" instead of telling me, so I wouldn't get it), so it looks like I'm gonna stay a virgin for a while, which in and of itself doesn't bother me, but the loneliness sucks.

It is funny how things change over time. I never thought I would fall in love with anyone AND have them love me back, but here we are. Its nice to be proved wrong sometimes, isn't it? :-*

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dwh
Butterfly

Joined: 11 Jan 2010
Age: 57
Gender: Male
Posts: 16
Location: Toronto, Canada

14 Jan 2010, 8:41 am

Lost it at 35. Stopped dating her a few months later as we agreed we weren't a good fit, but we're still friends. Met my now-wife a few months later.

The ONLY reason any of that happened was that I was in therapy. I wasn't diagnosed as AS but it still helped me deal with a lot of my symptoms and particularly the lack of confidence in myself. It also helped me realize that my fear of emotional pain was causing me to get nothing but emotional pain.

Back in university, I can now see that there were women who were interested in me, but I was either not seeing it or was too afraid of being close to someone to let myself see it.

I wish I had seen this thread way back then, though. It would have made everything so much easier on me, just to know that I was not alone.

hsmsop
Emu Egg
Emu Egg

Joined: 13 Jan 2010
Gender: Female
Posts: 2

14 Jan 2010, 10:07 am

17 and still a virgin. waiting for marraige

Celtic_Frost
Deinonychus

Joined: 12 Sep 2009
Age: 32
Gender: Male
Posts: 396
Location: Jackson, TN

14 Jan 2010, 10:08 am

18 and still a virgin. I wish I could lose it this year, though.

iamjackswayhome
Emu Egg
Emu Egg

Joined: 17 Jan 2010
Age: 41
Gender: Male
Posts: 5

18 Jan 2010, 2:43 am

27 and counting!

AnnePande
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Veteran

Joined: 13 Jul 2007
Age: 46
Gender: Female
Posts: 994
Location: Aarhus, Denmark

18 Jan 2010, 11:26 am

Just turned into a 32 year old virgin this Saturday.

Sirius
Yellow-bellied Woodpecker

Joined: 16 Apr 2010
Age: 54
Gender: Male
Posts: 63
Location: Fresno, CA

18 Apr 2010, 8:04 pm

:cry: I just turned 40 three months ago and still haven't lost it. The idea of human touch still sends shivers up my spine. I believe I need a therapist to introduce me to physical contact, without going nuts.

auntblabby
Veteran
Veteran

Joined: 12 Feb 2010
Gender: Male
Posts: 113,740
Location: the island of defective toy santas

19 Apr 2010, 3:48 am

moi

soulice
Hummingbird

Joined: 8 Apr 2010
Age: 43
Gender: Male
Posts: 19

19 Apr 2010, 9:29 am

Signed.

kingtut3
Deinonychus

Joined: 18 Aug 2009
Gender: Male
Posts: 354

19 Apr 2010, 8:32 pm

I'm the 21 year old virgin. I'm waiting for marriage.

Duckfetishgirl
Tufted Titmouse

Joined: 15 May 2009
Age: 169
Gender: Female
Posts: 43

20 Apr 2010, 1:09 pm

30 years old and a virgin.

e-man
Hummingbird

Joined: 19 Apr 2010
Age: 27
Gender: Male
Posts: 22
Location: bellmore new york

20 Apr 2010, 6:00 pm

i am the 13 year old virgin

AspieCartoonist
Snowy Owl

Joined: 4 Feb 2010
Age: 32
Gender: Male
Posts: 133
Location: Kentucky, USA

20 Apr 2010, 8:29 pm

Add yet another 18 year old virgin to that list.....

Joe90
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Veteran

Joined: 23 Feb 2010
Gender: Female
Posts: 26,492
Location: UK

21 Oct 2010, 11:57 am

I'm a 20 year old virgin. :oops: :oops: . So ashamed, so embarrassed. My mum had sex before the age of 20, so did my Aspie auntie! I'm so uptight about it, because I have some cousins who are younger than me, one's 18, one's 17, one's 16 and one's 13. The 18 year old and the 17 year old have had sex, and I'm pretty sure the 16 year old will be doing it soon too, because he's handsome and has a nice personality (not too loud and full-of-himself, and not too quiet and unconfident) so he will get a girlfriend very soon. And the 13 year old will be the type to start being out and about soon with mates, and soon be meeting girls by the time he's 16.
And I held him in my arms when he was a tiny baby - and he's almost ahead of me now. I'll soon be a 30 year old virgin, and he'll be a 23 year old non-virgin, married, with kids, in a spanking brand new home. And so will the rest of my cousins. No wonder I act so childish - I might aswell, because I'll never move on, no matter how hard I try.

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nthach
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Joined: 28 Feb 2008
Age: 39
Gender: Male
Posts: 1,457
Location: SF Bay Area

21 Oct 2010, 12:58 pm

25 here. I hope to lose it in 5 years or sooner.

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