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I'm hoping. There's this tremendously pretty thing
where I dance. She couldn't keep her hands off
me all night.

I'm just trying to get the nerve up to ask her to
meet in another circumstance, so that we can
get to know one another, and not just end up
falling into bed. That, and that she's not just
playing.

treat 'em mean, keeps 'em keen.

how does that work postperson - if someone was nasty to me I wouldn't hang around them, and I doubt someone of the opposite sex would want to be around me if I were nasty???

Good luck Calandale, where were you dancing?

Man, you’re a tough one…I’d never allow someone I didn’t know (no matter how cute and/or non-threatening she/he appeared) to touch me.

Generally, if someone touches you frequently and it doesn't hurt (that much): I believe that they like you. Unless of course she was touching everyone in the same manner, did you observe her behaviour when she wasn't with you? Though, dancing does require physical contact, and some people are more overt with their contact that others...uh, I’m confused.

Just ask her [whatever you want to ask], it's the easiest way for those of us who aren't as socially aware as the rest of us.

Do not procrastinate.
Remember, he who hesitates, waits.

Those naughty girls teasing you! Well, it's not about getting the nerve up is it? Just ask her if she wants to catch up sometime...swap numbers or something. Just hold her hand afterwards and say that you'd really like to spend some time with her sometime...I don't know...maybe we have different rules here....

Yes, it's hard to resist the whole 'oh damn it, I'll just ask her to come back to my place' if you have had a few drinks especially.

I'm too young for the nightclubs, and I feel stupid dancing in public, so I can't help you there.

If a girl touched me, I wouldn't mind. I would touch her back.

...uh...

Ask her out for coffee afterwards...something casual, somewhere quiet. So you can scope out if there is also "intelligent life" behind the prettiness.

Good luck.

that first part sounds like heaven to me...
you know if a petty girl wanted to use me for bed I don't think I could refuse...
but that won't happen so I won't have to

you dance?

nice!

maybe try dinner or somethin if you're up to it?

Some "normal" women seem to respond to such behavior in a rather counterintuitive way. The whole "bad boy" thing, something else, I don't know. The problems with this course of action are that 1) you have to commit to acting in a way you may not like, in a way that is almost deceptive if it isn't how you normally are, and 2) the other person may react as you had expected after all, and consider you a jerk rather than responding positively.

I'm far too chicken to just come out
and ask (without being drunk off my
rocker). I'm thinking about writing a
poetic exposition, and slipping it to her.

Part of the problem is that I'm a sort
of semi-celeb where I go - so I get a
lot of this kind of attention. But, this girl
is special. She even managed to understand
one of my little jokes (she asked my name,
when I told her, she repeated it, so I acted
as though she was claiming it was her name
as well); most people just get very confused
by these things, but she played right along with
it.

I'm really afraid that I'm going to completely fall
for her, without the necessary interaction. I've
only met one other person this pretty in my life -
she actually brings pain to me to look at her. Ah
well, the pitfalls of being a hopeless romantic fool.

what are you semi-celebrated for?

My dancing. I definitely have my fans.

Cal.

I think you should just go for the gusto and ask the girl out, and see what happens. we can't always be afraid and linger in the dark, instead we must go out unto the light and see what happens and what miracles beholden to us come, in only all that may we achieve what we are searching for, or what is searching for us.

trust me on this.

Obviously. I think so too. The question is whether
I CAN. I resolved to do so last week, and avoided
it, though she gave me more signs than I ever expected.