I totally agree. Half the forum will probably hate me for saying this, but ever since I was 13, I've had more people chasing me for potential romance than I could ever need, want, or tolerate. Most of them I had absolutely no interest in even becoming platonic friends with.
It sucks having to tell people no. It sucks even worse when you don't know how, so you end up half-playing-along to their desires while secretly searching every opportunity for escape. The poor guy trails after you, confused and hurt, getting his hopes up and then getting them dashed again. Luckily, even people who have feelings for you give them up if you wait long enough.
It's been a long time since I've had trouble finding intense connection with people - when I wanted it. Problem is, I've already got more than I can handle.
nayashi wrote:
What's hard is accepting that another person has feelings for you, because then you have to live with that fact forever. You can never really be alone.
This is why I'm through with romantic commitment for a rather long time.