When to ask? help please.

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I've been posting various factors involved in my attraction to this one woman, and I'm noticing a similar pattern I'm taking my sweet time and letting the opportunity pass by, so this would be my second time asking a woman out (my request was ejected) and first time asking a woman out in person when and how would be a good way to ask?

Just ask her as soon as you can, and in whatever way you feel comfortable with.

Tim

I would take it really casually, like: when you see her in public, maybe, make small chit chat (like about the weather, or ask her how her day is going) and smile, and casually ask her if she would like to go out for a drink or coffee sometime, and ask her for her phone #. Wait a couple of days, and then call her. Try and be fun, and show some interested in her life, and ask her out. Hope i was helpful! good luck to you...

mike george

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We already go to a coney island to study together and the other person who would drop by seems to never be available, and she isn't too secretive about her phone number not surprised seeing as the advent cell phones and what not not too much of a surprise there.

But here's a surprise she Might not be able to afford the classes we go to anymore and is willing to still study with me, might be reading too much into that but it still seems like an interesting thing to say. I'll have to ask soon some how before the possible interest fades.

I say just play it straight. Don't use lines, if you're typical for here you probably suck at them anyway. Maybe just tell her you like her, think she's special, (whatever you think), and you'd like to take her out sometime. If she doesn't run, suggest a time/ event/ something.

"Normal" people like flowers, maybe bring her a single flower or something. Nothing fancy. Or maybe that would be too cheesy, I don't know.

Good luck.