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20 Nov 2007, 11:27 am

What does a man really mean when he says "You are my favorite"? (to a girl). Thank you for reading!


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20 Nov 2007, 11:32 am

I wouldn't know.


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20 Nov 2007, 11:49 am

sassyaspie wrote:
What does a man really mean when he says "You are my favorite"? (to a girl).


In what context?


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20 Nov 2007, 11:55 am

sassyaspie wrote:
What does a man really mean when he says "You are my favorite"? (to a girl). Thank you for reading!


Odd. Favorite what? You should have asked.



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20 Nov 2007, 12:47 pm

I'm guessing that he has a bunch of potential girlfriends, but he likes you the best out of the bunch.



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20 Nov 2007, 1:56 pm

Thank you. But he said he didn't have a gf yet.

He was taking picture of me, and I asked why, and he said, "because you are my favorite".

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20 Nov 2007, 2:14 pm

Sounds like he's trying to flatter you, for whatever reason I can't be sure.


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20 Nov 2007, 2:14 pm

He sounds like a player......



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20 Nov 2007, 2:17 pm

sassyaspie wrote:
Thank you. But he said he didn't have a gf yet.

pandabear wrote:
I'm guessing that he has a bunch of potential girlfriends, but he likes you the best out of the bunch.

sassyaspie wrote:
He was taking picture of me, and I asked why, and he said, "because you are my favorite".

:)

That sounds like a stalker, not an admirer. At best, maybe what rushfanatic suggested.



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20 Nov 2007, 2:20 pm

Could I be the next Ann Landers? :)



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20 Nov 2007, 3:36 pm

indeed, sounds like a player. *sigh* oh well hope it turns out ... well



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20 Nov 2007, 5:16 pm

If I told my girlfriend that she'd probably poke me in the eye.

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21 Nov 2007, 8:56 am

I haven't found any good boy in my life!


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21 Nov 2007, 2:44 pm

It's an odd turn of phrase. Hard to guage.



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22 Nov 2007, 12:59 am

I remember it now, to be exact, he said, "You are my favorite person". I wonder if that makes more sense. Yes, it's really odd!


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22 Nov 2007, 2:28 am

It doesn't mean anything, beyond the fact that he was trying to act cute.

I've said things like that to people many times without literally meaning it, just to make them laugh or start up some banter.


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