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Is it possible to not feel love. I don't really know there are a few women ive really wanted to date and felt I loved but in the end I was just in a sense acting and I was not really wanting to date them. Even though one of the them is the most beautiful girl ever. It just seems with my ocd I go overboard and want to date them but when they say no or I get over them I feel that I never really wanted to be with them in the first place?

I've often wondered the same thing, but have recently realized that I may have just percieved everyone else as making deeper connections with each other than they actually are. We may not feel any less "love" than they have.

I let the hottest girl I've ever seen get away too, only I've felt even worse about it as time went on. This is because I realized in hindsight that she clearly invited me to just make a move on her when we were in a study room together once, only I was too much of a blockhead to take the hint, or notice that she seemed lonely and bored on other occasions, and was therefore NOT perpetually seeing someone else, as any girl that beautiful logically should have been.

No the beautiful girl I was talking about had or has a boyfriend. I meant the other two.

There's actually a very interesting article on this. It questions whether Aspies can feel love at all.

According to studies, Aspies can only tell if they love someone based on if they would die for them or not.

That's how I feel. I'm not really sure what love feels like. All I know is logically, I would die for that person. That must mean I love them.