Stupid!!

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omg last night i sent this very very very stupid message to my ex (whos also my best friend) and now i dont know what the hell to do!
i couldnt sleep and i wanted to commit suicide but i just cut alittle and then i got this stupid idea and i cant have been thinking at all cuz its just so stupid...
the message was something like this "sometiems i think i still love you like i used to but i know and hope thats not hte case and i just needed to tell you this im sorry i hope it didnt get you upset or sad i just needed to tell you sorry"
i usually talk to my best friend every day, almost. now i absolutly wont anwser the phone or anything!.
my stomack is hurting lots and i feel so dizzy i think i could actually throw up i gotta stop thinking about this but i cant i really cant ive done something so overwelming stupid i possibly could.
im never gonna talk to my best friend again not after this. okay i guess im gonna have to some day but..... what the hell am i supposed to say..... did i really have to ruin this?
i guess so.

So, you put your foot in your mouth. Big deal.

Get over it & keep things going as normal. You'll both get over it.

hey, don't worry- would have been far worse if you'd sent them a text telling them you hated them! If they're your best friend, they'll shrug it off- I've had some really weird texts from my friends before (& sent plenty which I've regretted), but if I'm ever confused, I just ask them/ explain next time I see them.

You could always say you were drunk when you sent it...

I don't get what's stupid about it in that sort of way, since your friends anyhow. Try to relax, and it might help if you didn't avoid them. After all, you sent it first right, so doing nothing might make it an actual issue... I think.

There's a reason why best friends are BEST friends.

They forgive and support.

Don't worry.

I can understand why you may feel embarassed or anxious.

But like the others said, it will pass. Just play it cool.

yeah i can say i was drunk!
i guess i could pretend ive forgotten about it totally, so if she says anythign about i can jsut be like "what? "