Older women and me

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Recently (yesterday actually) it has come to my attention that a 75 y.o. woman might be after me.

I'm 47.

She came into our lab last week and I drew her blood.
She started to comment on how good looking I was and she was in a very bouyant mood.
I commented that she didn't look 75 (she doesn't) and that she seemed to be taking very good care of herself.
She then started talking about how she has been an athlete all her life (she looks like she's in good shape).
I made some other kind remark and then she said...

"I like to cook, clean AND HAVE SEX!"

The two ladies I was working with were on the other side of the partition and heard every word.

That comment sorta got me flustered and I don't recall what I said after that, but I was polite and gave her one of my hand-made bunny bandages I'm sorta known for at the hospital.
She seemed happy with that and made a few more nice comments about me then left.

Yesterday she was back and asking where I was.
One of the ladies from the other day was there and said this lady seemed to be on the hunt for me
This patient did say she was married to an older man and when one of my co-workers asked about that little fact, I guess she said something about not caring.

So should I go out with her?

Just kidding!
First off, I would never go out with a married woman. I had one experience many years ago with that and learned a lot from it.

Second, I'm not looking to date right now in the sense that I am 'checking out the babes'.
I am interested in someone but that's never going to go anywhere.

Third... I hate to say she's too old for me, but it does feel that way... although I suppose it does make me feel like a 'young man' again... lol

My last two relationships were with older women... my wife - 5 yrs older, and before her a woman 9 yrs older.

Age isn't that big a deal for me and anyway it's all moot for now. With everything I've disclosed here at WP, I'm not exactly 'marketable merchandise'

So any bets that this 'older woman' thing has something to do with my tumultous relationship with my mom?

I DO NOT WANT TO DATE MY MOMMY!

No, I have never had a woman stalk me. Had some male perv's hit me up (creeped me out pretty bad), but never women... until now perhaps

I feel much better now with your analysis and conclusions... even if non-committal and vague
I'm gonna sleep much better tonight.
Interesting thing (perhaps to me only), is that the women I have been involved with I would not consider to be anything like my mother.... but my wife's father and I have physical similarities (beards mostly) and possibly other similarities that have always made me think she saw me as something similar to her father.... at least until I came out with the gender dysphoria thingy

Maybe this lady is hoping her husband will give her more attention. I think she was just flirting but you never know.....

If she brings you any baked goods I'd consider having them analyzed.

All I can say is that I hope I fair half this well at 75...heck I hope I make it to 75.

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With everything I've disclosed here at WP, I'm not exactly 'marketable merchandise'

You have totally cheered up my day, wsmac

I have no useful advice, other than never be alone with her ; be prepared to call for back up ; and keep your running shoes on at all times, just in case

I notice that a lot of older people just totally let fly with the flirtation and innuendo. The only men that flirt with me tend to be about 30 years older than I am. And I know a bunch of 50 year old women that are totally shameless with both men their own age and younger. Maybe you just loosen up as you get older. In my opinion their standards get lower too. They just flirt with everybody, all the time. Not to say that your elderly ogler didn't find you very attractive, I'm sure she did. More just that at that age, they are doing it to have fun rather than get anywhere with someone.

I do sometimes like older men because they are easier to talk to, easier to flirt with, and I feel less anxious around them. A lot of them stay good looking right into their 50-60s too. I might go out with one if I could find one who wasn't 1) married and 2) old enough to be my grandfather.

I think 74 is a bit too old though...even though you are 47, wouldn't you feel like you were seeing your grandma? It's always nice to be flattered though

My grandmother is in her early 80s, and whenever she goes to the doctor (a handsome guy in his late 30s), she always flirts with him shamelessly. She's like that with her cute dentist, too. She flirts with no teeth in her mouth, while he's fixing some problem with her dentures. They know better than to take her seriously.