A little ranting to calm the mind

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05 Jan 2008, 11:01 pm

Ok, First off, I don't want a girlfriend. Heres why:
Basically, in accordance with the code of dating, the buys the girl gifts, but then upon brake up, all that money has gone to wast. Its a broken system, you throw money in it, hoping to help it along, only to have it fall apart, like iraq. And then there's the restrictions, if your girlfriend doesn't like you friend, you have a problem on your hands. So far I don't see the gain... From A logical point of view, there is no logic. It's also like being on call, the girl expects you to always be there, and then, being a yoyoer, guitarist, 3D modeler, I cant just say, I'm to busy, and I'd rather be playing my guitar. What's more, the breakup would hurt like hell, and then the gossip also sucks. So I could go on and on, but I'm a lazy ass so I'm just going to leave it here.

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05 Jan 2008, 11:07 pm

It sounds like you need to just need to date a girl who doesn't suck. Find someone who isn't so clingy and is willing to pay for their own stuff, there are many girls out there who are like that.

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05 Jan 2008, 11:08 pm

What Aurore said.

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05 Jan 2008, 11:12 pm

Aurore wrote:

It sounds like you need to just need to date a girl who doesn't suck. Find someone who isn't so clingy and is willing to pay for their own stuff, there are many girls out there who are like that.

I fail to find one worth talking too with an IQ over 8. I value intellect over almost everything sept' kindness.

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06 Jan 2008, 12:27 am

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Mate.

welcome to a world that isn't perfect, far from it, we're all sinners.

You my friend are coming off as a guy with an ego the size of Mount Everest, and I don't like that, mainly because it makes you look perfect like you're a saint, which I sincerely don't believe.

It's human nature that nothing is ever going to be perfect, if it were the fall at the beginning of creation would never have happened and we'd be living in harmony.

So take a look next time you spout off like that, because, that my friend is not how to live. You have to live in order to make it.

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06 Jan 2008, 12:28 am

CymbalMonkey wrote:

Aurore wrote:

It sounds like you need to just need to date a girl who doesn't suck. Find someone who isn't so clingy and is willing to pay for their own stuff, there are many girls out there who are like that.

I fail to find one worth talking too with an IQ over 8. I value intellect over almost everything sept' kindness.

Blow up dolls don't count :roll:

Oh an congrats on trying to sound so smart when typing about how you fail to find one worth talking TO with an IQ over 8.

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06 Jan 2008, 1:30 am

CymbalMonkey, when you do finally fall madly in love with someone - and you will - I for one am going to remind you about this post, and tease you mercilessly.

Just kidding.

You're right though: there's just no dang logic in love. None at all. It picks you up at random and pins you to the wall, and you go along, knowing there's a chance you might come out of it with a few scratches and bruises, but so what.

Life itself is risk.

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06 Jan 2008, 1:48 am

I wont deny my ego, or my typos. BUT! All of the girls I have any interest in are upper class, and there is a large amount of disapproval of dating between grades.

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06 Jan 2008, 1:58 am

CymbalMonkey wrote:

I wont deny my ego, or my typos. BUT! All of the girls I have any interest in are upper class, and there is a large amount of disapproval of dating between grades.

Ahh, I see. Let's figure out the solution. I won't mention blow up dolls again. Well not to you anyway.

Okay. Do you have a preference based on looks like hair color, eyes, must be this must be that and if so explain.

(Don't worry this is not setting you up to throw stones at you, just answer as honestly as possible)

In other words, what is your physical type.

Second, what are your interests. Do they clash with the females you want to go after?

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06 Jan 2008, 3:03 am

You shouldn't date a girl who doesn't inspire you to give of yourself for the sake of her happiness, not for the sake of getting something else (nookie, presents, etc.) in return. Seriously. I don't look back at the nice things I've done or given to guys and think "Oh, that was such a waste!" All those gifts and compliments served their purpose at the time, which was to make the other person feel good in that moment.

When you really like a girl, you won't be counting up all the effort, time, and money you spend on her because you won't be questioning whether it's worthwhile--you'll know that it is.

Romance is not a system by which you barter for goods.

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06 Jan 2008, 3:07 am

gwenevyn wrote:

Romance is not a system by which you barter for goods.

I think you've summed that up in one sentence right there...

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06 Jan 2008, 8:34 am

CymbalMonkey wrote:

I wont deny my ego, or my typos. BUT! All of the girls I have any interest in are upper class, and there is a large amount of disapproval of dating between grades.

Easy solution = get interested in girls in your social class.

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06 Jan 2008, 11:06 am

It sounds like you need to meet more women. And talk to them and discover that some of them are intelligent, interesting beings who aren't just out to burn a hole in your wallet.

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06 Jan 2008, 12:05 pm

Kitsy wrote:

CymbalMonkey wrote:

I wont deny my ego, or my typos. BUT! All of the girls I have any interest in are upper class, and there is a large amount of disapproval of dating between grades.

First bit, not really.
Next bit. I like theoretical physics. One of my best friends and I will talk about it for hours. Also logic and logical fallacies. Oh and monty python!

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06 Jan 2008, 1:37 pm

CymbalMonkey wrote:

Kitsy wrote:

CymbalMonkey wrote:

I wont deny my ego, or my typos. BUT! All of the girls I have any interest in are upper class, and there is a large amount of disapproval of dating between grades.

First bit, not really.
Next bit. I like theoretical physics. One of my best friends and I will talk about it for hours. Also logic and logical fallacies. Oh and monty python!

I hope you can appreciate the irony in that statement...

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06 Jan 2008, 2:02 pm

CymbalMonkey wrote:

Aurore wrote:

It sounds like you need to just need to date a girl who doesn't suck. Find someone who isn't so clingy and is willing to pay for their own stuff, there are many girls out there who are like that.

I fail to find one worth talking too with an IQ over 8. I value intellect over almost everything sept' kindness.

A girl who sucks your money and leaves for another hotter guy must have a very good IQ level ....much higher than 8.

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