Will I ever find someone?

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I've liked dozens of girls..... and I've failed with ALL of them.... based on my calculations... I've probably pursued at least 20 girls..... they either get creeped out by me, i am too shy to pursue them (but only in my early years) I move away (early years), they reject me kindly or harshly, depending on the person, (but usually harshly), i am too distant becuase i rarely see them, or right now... i go to alternative school with only boys, and hardly know any girls..... I'm 16, and a guy.... I know alot of people on this site are much older and have never found anyone, but i have never even come CLOSE... what should I do??

Focus on other things to build yourself for the time being.

I often wonder if I'll ever find someone too. Don't worry, I'm sure that you will one day. [I'm not just saying that, you know, I really do believe it!] I actually had a bit of an embarrassing loneliness meltdown several months ago when I just became so lonely I couldn't stand it and cried a lot, so you're not alone. Sometimes I feel like I'm being silly since I'm so young, and then I don't know what to think. But then other times my optimism kicks in and I keep on smiling.

Yep, I'm a girl. I'm actually a lot like my avatar [Tifa] in terms of personality [we both have self-esteem and self-confidence issues] and things that we do [we both play piano and are karate masters! Well, I'm a blue belt, anyway]. I'm in Grade 12 and I can't stand school, so this forum has kind of become my haven. I write fantasy books and poetry, draw, paint, sing, and dance, so in other words, I'm a muse. Oh, and I like Lego and Doctor Who and RPGs. I also smile a lot...except when I'm moody. Oh, and according to how many posts I've made, I'm also a Deiyonychus [I really didn't spell that right at all].

There now; do you see how easy that was?

I have two conflicting things to say, so that both won't get me into trouble:

1. Good luck then, Monstercrack, you only made it extremely obvious what you are doing.

2. Ease up, man.

The problem is most girls are not ready for a relationship at 16. As you get older you can start looking for women on the outskirts of society. There are many outcasts. Functional pot heads are always very open minded, both men and women. Even if you do not smoke, they usually tolerate any form of poison, like alcohol. I am not advocating anything illegal, here, just my experience. The key is they should be functional and not spending all their money on their habit.