Define creepy/psycho/etc...

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I bet there's some decent threads on this already, but I'm curious as to what behaviors y'all view as creepy/psycho/etc...
Personally, mistreatment of those an individual views as below them in some way weird me out, as well as attempts at rationalizing irrational behavior.

Creepy pyscho as far as dating and relationship goes or over clingy-stalker types.

Hi. I'm the walking definition you're looking for...

5 minutes after you meet someone: "What's your address?" or "What's your phone number?"

I hate when a girl calls me like just after a first date and wants to talk endlessly, or always asking what I'm doing, ect, ect.

That's straight up Fatal Attraction for me lol

I think it really depends on the person and how well you know them. When someone follows you to continue talking to you even while you're obviously walking away, it can be a little creepy. And the ones that decide to inform you on their past sex life within the first five minutes of talking to you and then asks if you have a regular menstrual cycle, that can be creepy too. There are many things that I see that can be creepy, it just depends on who's doing them.

There's a grand total of one person who I just cannot view as creepy. Everyone else has the potential.

It's a lack of respect for personal space and other people's decisions. Another way to be creepy is to have expectations that are inconsistent with the nature of the relationship (expecting someone you just met to invite you to their house, for example).

If a random guy asked for my phone number, I declined to give it to him, and he started following me around, whining about it, and begging for other personal information, that would be creepy.

There are lots of other ways to be psycho or creepy. These are just some common themes that I have encountered.

It had to be a certain situation for me to find something genuinely creepy, but there are some things that kind of get under my skin. An example;

Once when I hanging out with a good friend of mine at his house, he had a certain number of girls there that he knew. My friend suffers from ADHD so he's extremely outgoing and social, which is strange considering how much we differ in that respect and how close we've gotten over the years. Anyhoo, we had just eaten lunch and he had basically prepared the food so I volunteered to do the dishes in exchange while he hung out with his gal-pals. When doing the dishes I heard various hushed voices followed by giggles. I didn't give it too much thought at the time. When they had left I turned to my friend and asked him what they had spoken of, or maybe he just told me I don't really recall. Apparently they had been whispering about how the found me to be good looking and attractive. For some reason, that just really freaked me out in a creepy way. I was flattered though, but still creeped out.

But that's just me.

Several years ago, I broke up with a man I had been dating a short while, (only a month). It was a long distance relationship - about a three hour journey between us. The weekend after I had dumped him I finished work and was suprised to find him standing outside with a bunch of flowers bigger than his head. I had to explain to him that I was going straight to a gig and couldn't carry a bunch of flowers around the entire evening, so therefore couldn't take them. He cried a lot.

Thanks for the info y'all. It seems like most have issues with personal interaction/boundaries as opposed to social behavior.

creepy and psycho to me is not respecting my privacy, space, calling me on the phone knowing i dont like talking on the phone, asking what im doing, what i did earlier that day etc in a nosey way

Why? Who's been talking about me?????