Younger guys

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I think I have a thing for younger guys. Which is kind of a problem since I hear that's a bit illegal. I even went after younger guys when I was in high school. I had one guy turn me down because he thought I was "too old" for him. I was only two years older. So, I just went after his friend who was three years younger than me. He was fine with my age. I think older men makes me more nervous. I don't really care for their facial hair either. With older men, I feel like I have to be a certain way, and feel like I might not be at their level yet; a level I should be at. I'm not even very comfortable with the men in my family. I'm trying to get over this, though.

I was just thinking I could never work as a teacher, or even inside a school, because I'd probably be like those teachers who end up in jail for "raping" their students.

I thought you meant 'much' younger men. Either way, it's a turn on.

That said, make sure you keep your interests to men that are over the age of 18, otherwise you risk prosecution.

Really? I pretty much write off anyone younger than me on the basis that they won't have the maturity to cope with me, also they won't have that much to talk about.

I am 28, and I prefer women close to my age.

I sort of recently grew a weakness for milfs Im 19

I happen to have a thing for older women. I always have. To me, having an older gf is
bragging rights and is kind of a status symbol in a way:P. Im tired of women being so infatuated with older men-I mean to me its kinda creepy when a 19 year old women is with a guy 10 years older than her. I pretty much draw the line when the age difference is 10 years or more. Is there some social taboo against women dating younger guys? I tell you though, there a lot more guys out there who like older women than you might think!

How is your relation with your father?

its not a problem as long as its an adult you're dating. 18+ or 21+ depending on the country.

sexual age of consent is NOT the age of adulthood. I believe in the UK age of consent is like 14 or something like that.. if you're 22 and he's 15 ..its rape.

but then, adulthood isnt needed for a partnership. (at least, not in any jurisdiction i know of)

the one jurisdiction i can tell for super sure, because its the one i live in, is the german one: age of consent is 14, which means that every person of fourteen years can decide for him- or herself with whom to sleep, whom to date, and whom to call his or her partner.
there are two exceptions:
-when one partner is between 14 and 16 and the other partner is older than 18 and the older one is in some form paying the younger (or "buying" the relationship through gifts of extraordinary value) or is taking advantage of a dilemma or similar situation on the side of the younbger partner.
-when one partner is between 14 and 16 and the other partner is older than 21 and the older one is taking advantage of a lacking ability of the younger to make sexual decisions (which must be diagnosed individually)

marriage is a different story altogether... but other than that, the age of adulthood does not have any influence on with whom to have sex in any jurisdiction i know of.

I have to say that I agree that 18 is a ridiculous age for the age of consent. In Britain it's 16, but I lost my virginity at 15 anyway.

However, I think it's in Denmark or somewhere like that where their age of consent is 12 or 13, and they have the lowest teenage pregnancy rate in Europe.

And yes, Muslim law does usually make it so that age of consent is when they're married. Some people have accused Muhammed of being a paedophile because he married a six year old girl and slept with her aged nine - however what they tend to miss is that another part of what Islam defines as 'age of consent' is as soon as they hit puberty. So she was just an early bloomer, and that meant that under Islamic law Muhammed was not committing statutory rape.

I'm 32, my aspie guy is 25. Our ages may not match but our personalities and maturity levels do. Sometimes I worry that I am too old for him or that he is too young for me.. but I don't know... it just kinda works somehow.

Hmm. Yeah, as long as they're over 18 it's no big deal. Besides, you're not even that old, if you were born in 1987.

I don't hate the idea of having an older girlfriend, as long as she was under 30. I don't like the idea of going past 25 (I'm 19, almost 20), but on the other hand, I have a guilty crush on a woman who is almost 30, but looks closer to 23.