Hi all,
I just spent an hour going through a lot of the dating and more adult oriented posts, and I have a suggestion for all of those frustrated guys who want solid, practical advice:
Men's Health Magazine. My wife bought me a subscription a few years ago when I started working-out. I have to say, I wish I was aware of this magazine when I was single. Month in and month out, this magazine offers practical, often science-based articles and tips on relating to the opposite sex. Thus far, I have found the dating and relationship articles dead-on and everything is written from a non-sexist point of view (often by women themselves). If you don't feel like forking over $5, they have a website as well:
http://www.menshealth.com
Some of the ladies might also enjoy it (my wife reads it too). It might provide you with some practical insight into the male mind. There's also a female version entitled "Women's Health":
http://www.womenshealthmag.com/