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So alot of the girls that like me would it be possible to talk to them and b/c just friends or would they just get upset if I don't so enough interest towards something more? I only ask b/c the girl I keep mentioning with the long story in other posts I didn't so alot of outward interest and she quickly got upset like after talking only twice and thought she shouldn't bother with me again it's waaaay longer than that and more complicated but same general idea. Platonic when they want more is it possible?

I think you have it backwards. In general, it's men that always want something more from a woman (mainly sex), while most women are happy to just have someone to talk to/hang out with.

Well seeing as they find me physically attractive I don't feel the same way and the fact that I have no friends since High School I would like them to be my friend w/o having to try and date them or flirt just friends if they were more attractive to me fine but their not so I just wanna be friends they seem cool most of em just not dating material and I don't want to lead them on. And guys can want girls as platonic I like to talk to girls even ones I WOULD NEVER EVER DATE and they would never want me to it's just something I enjoy doesn't have to have sex involved anywhere.

Well, that's great, if only there were more guys like you.
If you think one of the girls wants more than friendship, then that's her problem--if you're not interested in her, then don't pretend to be. She can either choose to remain friends or move on, it's her decision. But you know what you want for yourself, and that's what's important.