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weather1man
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08 Apr 2008, 9:54 am

I found this quote at an ADD forum, I think it says it all with my issues.


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"But in general, at first shy guys may seem interesting and cute, but it DOES get old really quick. Gets too boring."


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08 Apr 2008, 10:34 am

I think it is a bit weird to say this. As if being shy or not makes someone interesting or not. Ofcourse I am no woman, but the best women I know would certainly put a guy who's shy but actually has something to say above some saying nonsense loud.

The girl who said this would probably not like my shyness, but I would not mind one bit even if I was still desperate :).



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08 Apr 2008, 11:01 am

i think it's referring to the guys who won't come out of their shell and are too shy to talk about anything. i'm shy sometimes but once i get comfortable i'm interesting (at least to some). it would get boring if the person was too shy to talk about anything interesting, meaning anything other than small talk.



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08 Apr 2008, 12:00 pm

Most shy people I know have things to say once they are comfortable. I didn't really think about te other group. Ofcourse a lot of people also have nothing to say besides smalltalk, but I don't see that related to being shy or not.

About myself I am quite certain I am very very boring to a great majority of the people. The lucky thing is that the people who seem to think I am not so boring are mostly the ones I think are interesting.