Joined: 3 Mar 2008 Age: 47 Gender: Male Posts: 209
08 Apr 2008, 10:34 am
I think it is a bit weird to say this. As if being shy or not makes someone interesting or not. Ofcourse I am no woman, but the best women I know would certainly put a guy who's shy but actually has something to say above some saying nonsense loud.
The girl who said this would probably not like my shyness, but I would not mind one bit even if I was still desperate .
Joined: 12 Jan 2008 Age: 38 Gender: Male Posts: 1,319 Location: Ontario, Canada
08 Apr 2008, 11:01 am
i think it's referring to the guys who won't come out of their shell and are too shy to talk about anything. i'm shy sometimes but once i get comfortable i'm interesting (at least to some). it would get boring if the person was too shy to talk about anything interesting, meaning anything other than small talk.
Joined: 3 Mar 2008 Age: 47 Gender: Male Posts: 209
08 Apr 2008, 12:00 pm
Most shy people I know have things to say once they are comfortable. I didn't really think about te other group. Ofcourse a lot of people also have nothing to say besides smalltalk, but I don't see that related to being shy or not.
About myself I am quite certain I am very very boring to a great majority of the people. The lucky thing is that the people who seem to think I am not so boring are mostly the ones I think are interesting.