Any advice out there?...

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Yea, I'm quite obtuse at times... well to be honest most of the time.

Well, this young lady and I have been spending quite a bit of time together of late (last month or so). I originally met her through her sister who is dating one of friends. I've wanted to do something to get moving since I've felt physically better since getting off the gluten and she has a 3rd or 4th degree black belt so figured why not ask her to teach me. Well she jumped at the chance since she enjoys that kind of thing.

That is going alone fine, she works with and through my many problems and seems to genuinely want to understand them. Well a couple weeks back she decided it was time I learned to dance. I can certainly see why people like it.

Since then it has been driving me crazy. She's quite touchy feely with everyone but it seems more so with me and for once I don't mind. (well most of the time and she seems to sense when this is... there are times I swear she reads my mind) She's made comments about really only enjoying dating older guys (I'm more than a few years older than she is but she is well over 18 so no worries there).

She's invited me over to dinner a few times...

I just don't know what is going on... she is a very friendly person to begin with but... arrrggghhh... I don't do subtley or read signs...

I'd say she likes you.

Since she seems to understand you pretty well, why not just out right ask her? I don't think she'd mind, and it's SO much easier....

I agree. From what you've said it does seem like she likes you, so it's probably worth at least asking her out on a date, or even asking how she feels about you straight out.

Yeah ask her. Not us.

Be mindful of the age difference though.