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So I broke up a masochistic but intense relationship I had with a bipolar woman last August-BEST damn thing I ever did. The thing is, despite ending the romantic affair we have remained platonic friends ever since and for the last couple of months I chat with her by telephone once every 2-5 days. She tried to woo me way back in January by telling me that she was lonely, horny, and would say awww! I wish you were here and even call me "hun" like she did when we were involved. I didnt flat out tell her to stop but made it clear I wasnt gonna go there since we're strictly platonic-she finally back down. But lately this whole damn month she's been totally rude and obnoxious towards me and all we'd talk about is my frustration with women. So a week ago I called for the first time in 5 days and she asked me to call her back in 2 hours, I did just that and when I do the b***h cant be bothered to chat cuz "she decided to do something else" ......Grrrrr. Keep in mind this woman is (type 1)bipolar but is medicated. Same happened on Sunday when I called she was at dinner with her mommy and daddy and so I called back in "a few hours" to be told hurridly that she was "busy" with something and couldnt talk right now. So then I get an email from her telling me she's in a relationship and DIDNT f*****g even bother to tell me that she met a guy-I wouldve let her know if(AND When)I met a girl. It just seems so ODD that she didnt tell me since we're nothing more than friends now..... Maybe she's back to her old stupid games again .

sounds like she didn't want to be friends and you did now she's blowing you off so she doesn't have to be around someone who doesn't like her the way she wants them too.

only one word is the solution...."next!"

dated a bipolar woman for 8 years. She was a travel agent for guilt trips, "She who must be appeased", etc. Get out, and stay out (I mean that in a good way. She's not the only fish in the sea"

sounds like a dumb b***h to me. forget about her.

I just want to reinforce that there is NO chance of me EVER getting involved with her again! Part of me still wants to remain friends with her but I dont quite understand why she's doing this....give the fact that both of us agreed to go no further ever again Does her behaviour make sense to anybody here?

This is how it looks like to me.

She had a go at trying to woo you back. I'd say for a self esteem thing not because she wanted to be with you again. Woman feel good about wanting to be desired. Because you kind of rejected her, in her mind she wanted to get you back and that's why she didn't tell you about her new relationship.

Yep games.

This is the thing though-I was hesitant at first when she was trying to woo me back but THEN when I actually went along with it
she had the *good grace*(sarcasm, folks ) to PUSH me away....AGAIN . I had GOOD REASON to be suspicious of her cuz I hinted a few weeks later at getting back with her and she refused. So I 'd say that she was wooing me to flatter herself and stroke her ego only to reject me when I took her seriously. So it isnt true that I rejected her-I was just hesitant cuz I knew the b***h was just leading me on.

Forget her. Get out and move on. Remaing "friends" with exes cannot be done, I have tried and failed every time.

My *heart* says never say never , but rationally that really is the best thing to do. So it looks like that b***h is out of my life(@LAST! ).

Well folks, the Bridge has been Burned . Its official, the b***h deleted me from her friends roster on facebook. We were facebook friends starting a year ago through Thick and Thin. It still HURTS to lose a friend, even if its a former lover. Ive known her since November 13th, 2006. We havent gone for more than 2 weeks without communication since then. I did what she wanted and Ceased calling her since monday but that WASNT enough. I kept msging her on facebook trying to get it out of her Why she REALLY "need space" from ME and not anyone else............... What more is there to say?

Sounds to me like she found someone else...you are better off without, trust me.