I fail to understand this girl

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27 Apr 2008, 10:07 am

So as I posted before I met this girl at my job and whatnot. Now I added her to my fb and she WAS cool with that, and i aimed with her some. Then one day she quit replying then blocked me. So I was like ok, that makes no sense, but w/e this girl just isn't into me. Yet, she still chats with me on facebook and at work she talks to me more than almost anyone there about her life, or what's she is doing. She said before that she didn't want people calling her unless they are her best friend, and maybe she now feels the same way about aim? Or maybe she's to busy to talk to me on it and just blocked me so I wouldn't get upset or think she was ignoring me. So either this girl really dislikes me, or something else. If she disliked me it seems like she wouldn't chat with me at work. I mean she chats with some of the girls, (as most girls do) but she does seem to chat with me more than most of the other guys. Then on top of that... another guy tried to speak to her and she would not say a word to him, even though he asked her direct questions. Has anyone else seen anything like this? It's highly confusing.

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27 Apr 2008, 10:38 am

maybe she's aspie?

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27 Apr 2008, 10:55 am

weather1man wrote:

she sees you as a friend, not a potential dating prospect.

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27 Apr 2008, 12:28 pm

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Yet, she still chats with me on facebook and at work she talks to me more than almost anyone there about her life, or what's she is doing.

When a girl tells you about her life and about every she's doing like as if she's trying to her female friends that means that there's no romantic interest involved.

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27 Apr 2008, 12:34 pm

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Yet, she still chats with me on facebook and at work she talks to me more than almost anyone there about her life, or what's she is doing.

When a girl tells you about her life and about every she's doing like as if she's trying to her female friends that means that there's no romantic interest involved.

Errm, ok. Well I've not ever had a girl usually talk to me to begin with, so yea. Would it be detrimental for me to ask her to a movie as a friend?

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27 Apr 2008, 12:43 pm

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Yet, she still chats with me on facebook and at work she talks to me more than almost anyone there about her life, or what's she is doing.

When a girl tells you about her life and about every she's doing like as if she's trying to her female friends that means that there's no romantic interest involved.

Errm, ok. Well I've not ever had a girl usually talk to me to begin with, so yea. Would it be detrimental for me to ask her to a movie as a friend?

Do you care of you lose her as a friend? If not,then ask her out since it's an opportunity without risks. I suggest you to be opportunist.

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27 Apr 2008, 12:57 pm

LePetitPrince wrote:

weather1man wrote:

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Yet, she still chats with me on facebook and at work she talks to me more than almost anyone there about her life, or what's she is doing.

When a girl tells you about her life and about every she's doing like as if she's trying to her female friends that means that there's no romantic interest involved.

Errm, ok. Well I've not ever had a girl usually talk to me to begin with, so yea. Would it be detrimental for me to ask her to a movie as a friend?

Do you care of you lose her as a friend? If not,then ask her out since it's an opportunity without risks. I suggest you to be opportunist.

not really. since I won't see her again in a few weeks once I move.

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27 Apr 2008, 1:11 pm

weather1man wrote:

LePetitPrince wrote:

weather1man wrote:

LePetitPrince wrote:

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Yet, she still chats with me on facebook and at work she talks to me more than almost anyone there about her life, or what's she is doing.

When a girl tells you about her life and about every she's doing like as if she's trying to her female friends that means that there's no romantic interest involved.

Errm, ok. Well I've not ever had a girl usually talk to me to begin with, so yea. Would it be detrimental for me to ask her to a movie as a friend?

Do you care of you lose her as a friend? If not,then ask her out since it's an opportunity without risks. I suggest you to be opportunist.

not really. since I won't see her again in a few weeks once I move.

Does she know you are moving? Who would get involved with someone that is moving? I mean, why bond when there is little future in an ongoing relationship?

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27 Apr 2008, 2:07 pm

sinsboldly wrote:

weather1man wrote:

LePetitPrince wrote:

weather1man wrote:

LePetitPrince wrote:

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Yet, she still chats with me on facebook and at work she talks to me more than almost anyone there about her life, or what's she is doing.

When a girl tells you about her life and about every she's doing like as if she's trying to her female friends that means that there's no romantic interest involved.

Errm, ok. Well I've not ever had a girl usually talk to me to begin with, so yea. Would it be detrimental for me to ask her to a movie as a friend?

Do you care of you lose her as a friend? If not,then ask her out since it's an opportunity without risks. I suggest you to be opportunist.

not really. since I won't see her again in a few weeks once I move.

Does she know you are moving? Who would get involved with someone that is moving? I mean, why bond when there is little future in an ongoing relationship?

She does, but I still don't understand why she would block me on aim. She did say she wanted to finish 2 grades in 8 months though. I just want to take her to a movie...

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27 Apr 2008, 2:36 pm

When someone blocks you on msn/aim that means that this person dislikes you and doesn't want to chat with you.

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27 Apr 2008, 2:37 pm

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When someone blocks you on msn/aim that means that this person dislikes you and doesn't want to chat with you.

then why not delete me off fb too?

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27 Apr 2008, 2:46 pm

^^ some people love to have a long list of IM/email addresses, that will make them feel social and popular , having few blocked 'losers' on the list will make them feel better too.

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27 Apr 2008, 2:50 pm

Have you talked to her about this? One time, a friend of mine accidentally blocked me from his buddy list and didn't realize it until a year later.

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27 Apr 2008, 3:08 pm

guess your right. still she should had deleted me from her facebook too. oh well

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27 Apr 2008, 3:15 pm

Sometimes I block someone if I don't feel like talking with them right then. Though I usually end up taking away the block later if that's just it.

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27 Apr 2008, 3:38 pm

Lurv wrote:

Sometimes I block someone if I don't feel like talking with them right then. Though I usually end up taking away the block later if that's just it.

I think if anything it's that she doesn't like talking on aim, or the phone to people she doesn't know well and she just didn't want me to think she was ignoring me. She's still nice enough to me in real life so it's not that she dislikes me.

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